Just A Hopeless Romantic

That Person. Them.

There it is. That phrase again. 𝑻𝒉𝒂𝒕 𝒔𝒕𝒖𝒑𝒊𝒅 𝒇𝒖𝒄𝒌𝒊𝒏𝒈 𝒑𝒉𝒓𝒂𝒔𝒆. My friends all say it to me, yet they all come to me for help with their love lives.

"You're just a hopeless romantic," She says.

"You expect to much" They add.

"You get to attached." He says.

I know. I know all of it.The worst about that phrase though, is when the person you'd do anything for says it, and compares you to each other, but refuses to chance it with you. Instead they move on, they say they don't want any of it with you. Then that person goes to you upset and complains about someone not treating them how they deserve.
You're there, you'll comfort, and you'll never give up on them; But they'll only see you when they need you. They'll only know you exist when they have no one else. They'll never be there for you like you are to them.
It's the worst type of heartache, really.
Unfortunately I tell this from experience, and let me tell you, detach yourself. It will only harm you to stay, and eventually it will be impossible for you to let go.
They'll only be there when they have nothing better to do, no one else will talk to them, no one else is happy for them about that thing they're proud of, no one else they can spill endless secrets to that will never be shared again.
Every problem they have is on 𝒀𝒐𝒖 now. You cannot share anything to them, you don't want to add to their burdens. They say it's fine, but the moment you do they become distant.
They won't say you're annoying them, won't say you're talking to much, won't say you're bothering them or being a burden, but they make it apparent. Though, maybe they will outright say it.
Sometimes they'll tell you themselves they only talk to you when bored or alone. They'll tell you they don't want to talk 𝒂𝒇𝒕𝒆𝒓 they've ignored you for minutes, hours, days, maybe even weeks.

And no matter how badly they hurt you, you'll never admit it to them...You're to scared to. You don't want them to know how they're treating you, or how they make you feel, or that they hurt you; you don't want to ever let them know how they make you feel, because you never want them to experience the pain they're making you feel, whether Intentional or not.