My Life Stories

Ex -_-

Full story:

Welp broke up with my gf yesterday and then she proceeded to tell her closest friends about it even though it's a private matter and it's no one's business. Like, yes you can say that we broke up but she made me seem like the bad guy. Ik I'm not. I laid it down gently to her and have been kind and caring to her the whole relationship. I've never once lied to her and only spoke truth. Yet she treat me like this.

She said that I was ruining her friendship with her bff even though she's the one asking for solutions. Plus I'm only 3rd party so I don't know how the other parties feel. I couldn't give 100% solution. She didn't even have to take my advice.

Then said I was manipulating her. Like huh? I never once did. And then said that I lied to her about loving her. I didn't lie about that. I did love her it's just eventually my love started to fade.

When I was talking in our server like nothing happened apparently she got upset about it? Like it's no one's business about our private matters. We have to act mature about that and not get ppl involved. What did I expect from a 14 yo? No offense to 14 yo but let's be real, you don't mature at 14. I'm about to turn 17. I wouldn't say I'm fully mature but more mature than 14. Plus I've had experience while she didn't.

Then she said I started ignoring her. I told her I needed a break. Meaning I needed space yet she kept on texting me.

She said things won't go back to normal and doesn't want to be friends. Was hoping we still be friends but apparently not. Had hope bc she was nice and was friends with my 1st ex. But it's fine not too hurt about it but then I got annoyed at her and her friends.

1 of her friends started to be passive aggressive towards me (btw if you're reading this, oh well). Saying I have to address him as "Gabriel the best goddamn man whore you've ever met". Which I really don't. Too long and tiring to spell every time. Ngl I thought it was a joke when he said you the full thing. Kinda ridiculous really. I'm just saying Gabriel. They even told me to say it in the public server I own, which I'm guessing they're trying to make me upset or something? Felt nothing towards it really. The other friend played along (kinda) to it too.

Can't exactly ban them bc ppl like them (1 has a bf and another is in platonic relationship) and they haven't outright done anything bad except being passive aggressive (Seriously if you do see this and have something to say, then let's have a calm conversation).

Then my ex gf told my bestie about this which my bestie told me and said he wouldn't pick sides. Which I appreciate. But annoyed how she tried to make my bestie go against me (in my pov at least). I don't mind him knowing we broke up but like I said, it's a private matter that doesn't need to go into detail.

We've cut ties. But I'll probably still have troubles in the future I don't want *sighs* Whatever. I'm not even heart broken bc ppl have hurt me so many times that idgaf anymore. Probably gonna take a break from dating. If I date someone pretty early, please hit me.

Also I'm not going to give out the person's wattpad username bc that's private and I don't want them to get spammed and hate me more. Hopefully things end well. I'm starting school on Tuesday so I want to have a good first day as a junior!