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Liking,loving and sexual relationships

Liking,loving and sexual relationship forge the bonds of the human connection.This person to person connection expand the boundaries of our individual functioning by liberating the self from solitary confinement.The chemistry that occurs between two people in love cannot be fully understood from even the most intensive analysis of the individual elements involved.The relationship is the secret ingredient,the "WE" that transforms the "YOU" and the "ME", Interaction is the special process ,the mutual sharing that emerges from the individuals giving and taking.The sound of the one hand clapping is silent and not half hearted applause.so too for example,is the sound of one person trying to tockle himself or herself.It is not partial laughter,but silence.You will never know whether you are ticklish by judging how you respond to tickling yourself.

Try it and discover that even such an apparently physical response requires the presence of another person.It is not clear why this should be ,buy it is evident that it takes two to tickle.

The psychological aspects of sexual excitement;what turns people on .

If we're to argue that the major sex organ is the brain,in a sense you will be right.Much is considered sexually arousing in our society has little or nothing to do with genitals but instead is related to external stimuli which , through a process of learning,have to be labeled as EROTIC or sexually stimulating.There are no areas of the body when touched automatically produce sexual arousal.What are called Erogenous zones-areas of the ebody that are particularly sensitive not just to sexual touch,but to any kind of touch .When a physician touched a breast or penis,the information sent to the brain by the nerve cells is essentially the same as that when a lover touches the same area.what differs is the interpretation given to the touch.Only when a certain part of the body is touched in what people define as a sexual manner is sexual arousal likely to follow.

Although people can learn to respond sexually to almost any stimulus,there is good deal of agreement within the society or culture about what usually represent an erotic stimulus .In western society full breasts represent a standard against which many malesmeasure female appeal,but many other cultures breast size is irrelevant.In some culture plumpness is viewed as very erotic .

In some cultures women prefer men with small buttocks and moderately large chest.They also see the chest as most sexually stimulating-more so than buttocks,legs or penis.Sexual fantasies also play an important role in producing sexual arousal.Not only do people have fantasies of sexual nature during their everyday activities,but about 60% of all people have fantasies during sexual intercourse.Interestingly such fantasies include having sex with someone other than ones partner of the moment.

Phases of sexual response

Although the kinds of stimuli that produce sexual arousal are to some degree unique to each of us,there are some basizlc aspects of sexual responsiveness that are unique to each of us; there are some basic aspects of sexual responsiveness that we all share.

According to pioneering work which studied sexual behavior in carefully controlled laboratory settings,sexual responses follow a regular partten consisting of four phases.

PHASES 

Excitement

A period during which the body prepares for sexual intercourse.in excitement phase it can last from just a few minutes to over an hour ,an arousing stimulus begins a sequence that prepares the genitals from sexual intercourse.In the male ,the penis becomes erect when the blood supply to the area and the vagina becomes lubricated.Women may also experience"Sex flush"measles_like coloration that typically spreads over the chest to throat.

Plateau

A period in which the maximum level of arousal is attained ,the penis and the clitoris swells with blood and the body prepares for orgasms.During this period a maximum leval of sexual arousal is attained as the penis and clitoris swells with blood.The size of the woman's breasts and vagina increases . Heartbeat and blood pressure rise,and breathing rate increases.Muscle tension becomes greater as the body prepares itself for the next stage.

Orgasm

The peak of sexual excitement during which time ryhthmic muscular contractions occur at the genitals.Although it is difficult to explain the sensations of orgasm beyond saying that it Isa tense,highly pleasurable experience,the biological events that accompany the feeling are fairly straightforward.When orgasm stage is reached rhythmic muscular contractions occur in the genitals every eight-tenths of a second.In the male the contractions expel semen,a fluid containing sperm,from the penis.

Resolution

The final stage of sexual arousal during which the body returns to it's normal state, reversing the changes brought about by arousal.The genitals resume their normal size and shape,blood pressure, breathing and heart rate return to normal.


Some maybe in a position to experience all these stages but some due to poor lifestyle,they may jump some phases.Drugs, masterbation,fear when doing the act, addiction of sex and many things triggers different reaction from different spouse.To those who don't know,sex is life and was created for married man and woman, those who do it in bush they do it fast just to excite their bodies but in the real sense you have sinned and fornicated.In this generation fornication is not a thing to them,but that is another story.

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