Audrey Menees 2nd hour May 5, 2015 Speech:OO
Peace May be Achieved Even When at Rest.In a typical sense, what is being human and/or being labeled as a monster or weird? Would you see it as a person being an emotional subject, a judgemental jerk, or even a person whose truths are always real? Everyone has a right to an opinion. An opinion may not always be the truth. It may even be a manifestation of what you wish or really want to happen in the very moment in time. Labeling someone by those categories is not our job. It never will be either. Just the same way that it's not our job to react at our wills content. It is natural to get defensive, even overreacting. Our behavior matters when we deal with situations and times of need.
Labels are put on everyone and everything, no matter the costs or what happens. Sometimes we hate what we get called. We hate it to the very depths of our bones passing through to our brains and hurt us. Maybe we never wanted those names to begin with, and we have asked them to stop. They simply just keep going. When we ask and they don't stop thats considered "Bullying." I'm not trying to sound rude or mean myself. It's been going back from the time we cavemen turned up to go in packs. My 6th grade history taught us that back in the past cavemen would leave out the weak for the strong, and most of them died. I know fire was started by a scrawny person who saw lighting make fire and made it back to the group. No joke, it was a person who was left out and wanted to survive. He just started playing with sticks and boom, he got fire. So it's natural, no one can have perfect control of their emotions, but they may have a good grip. You have no idea what's going on in the others life, so it's best to ignore it. Just let it happen. Teenage girls are the worst at this at times. They judge each other all the time, and when the other gets offended a long feud is broken out into chapters. It will happen even if we don't want it to, because thats life. It's the same with judgement, it happens whether we like it or not. Arguments are broken out all the time, all the time. it goes from who's the loudest, cleverest, or even who's the strongest, but out of anything you will have that one person who is telling you the truth. They usually are hanging on to hope grasping on a cat's whisker plead for his/her life. They also try to fix things still even after the feud is over. So it will still be sustainable.
That one person clinging to hope is feeling from wound of all kinds including rips and tears. With their broken heart they will find shelter and renew their feel feelings. The scars will leave the skin smooth, but rough at the same time. With it's sensitive it will easily bleed if someone is not careful. Depending on how the person is in personality they will feel the emotions of: Sadness, Anger, Stress, Regret, and finally move on from the horrid past. Yes I do know it sounds like the steps of when you lose someone you truly love, but they are stages of a trial you have to face! Why put them off when you get it done now and get it over with and not have to relive the pain once more! Most people don't recover from this because of lack of confidence or they don't try hard enough and put effort into it. Yes, I went there and said it, because they're are people like that. Lazy people, and I'm lazy when I need to be. I know the perfect times to get my stuff done. Everyone does have their own pace. It's special to everyone. Teamwork requires mashing them together to get the job done. No need to pick one or the other, friends are there to help you in time of need. They give you the strength to push on because they want you around.
In result, Faith Deeter posted on July 16, 2014 "When a person brings up there past, it's usually something they want in the present... They feel hurt,unloved, insecure, misunderstood, or even distrusted like they did before." Once they are out, they run away from the broken shackles in the treacherous hole they were stuck in and they move forward to what is their version of a safe haven. They have gotten out their last trial is to face the truths. To realize what had happen and keep it and not get mournful about it. Because it happened for a reason and you can't change it. Realization is a very important key for accepting what had to happen. You know you made the choices that were right to you. You have to do what makes you able to sleep at night. If it was the wrong choice and you stay up, then that was the wrong choice. Resolve is the last step, it releases all the pain and agony you have all at once. It shows the hard work you have put into your choice. It makes your stress release also.
"People often relieve the pain over and over in their minds, some people get stuck even." This was posted by Psy. D John M. Grohol on July 22, 2015. When other say we "Don't care" or that "We don't understand" not even letting them finish our sentence. A good majority of the time we do know from past events. If we don't we still want to understand. We want to be there and make you feel better. It's to show that we do care and you can lay on our shoulder for a minute if needed. We will be there for you through thick and thin. Depending if you have the weird friends, then it's unpredictable of what they do before they comfort you. It just goes to show you are that strong. Someone who starts a feud or a fight has anger that has been passed down from others. It is a good thing to have the understanding not to be offend and brush it off. Knowing the person will get better and something will reprimand them.
