so my sister, b, had a boyfriend who i thought was super funny and cool. i thought they were a perfect match for each other and they seemed to think the same.
i admired how healthy and great their relationship was and i really liked the idea that one day, ill have one just as lovely.
but just now, b told me that they broke up. it didnt happen a moment ago, it happened in november.
ive never been in a relationship, so that might be why i found their reasoning stupid, but she said it was because they were meeting a bunch of new people and long distance wasnt working. (we live in canada, he lives in the usa)
why
why doesnt it work
why couldnt it work
why
why
why
why couldnt things have been easier for them
she visited him in person once, and nothing changed with how they felt
so how come when she leaves again, THEN it changes?
why couldnt they have tried to work through it with each other
why do long distance relationships have to be so hard
and why am i so upset over it when it wasnt even mine
i didnt even know her boyfriend that well but im still really
angry?? sad??? dissapointed??
ill make do with upset for now but
theyre on good terms, theyre friends, but that doesnt feel right. she said he was the one. she said they were going to get married. she planned to move in with him.
so why did they fucking break up
why did they break up if they were so special to each other
it confuses me and i hate it
did they even try to salvage things
because with the way she put it, it just seemed like they went "oh, we havent been talking a lot lately lets break up"
its so stupid
im upset
should i even be, though?? is it my business?? its not, but should i be caring this much???
if a relationship can end over such a small obstacle then i dont want to ever be in one
