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I think my Husband is trans. how do I tell him that I support him?

I feel like just me wording the title is wrong but i don't know what to think. I, (43M) have been with my husband—I'll call him Pea(42M)—for 20+ years! (I'm old, I know, but I really don't know where else to talk about this!) He's the love of my life and I'm eternally grateful to know him!

A bit of backstory—we met in the Army years ago. We were stationed together and became each other's rock! We both had no family at home, and took care of each other! I fell first, and confessed to him. He reciprocated! And we were both honourably discharged!!
War was tough, PTSD and all, but we stayed close by each other's sides, we were best friends!! We eloped quickly after settling down in the UK (I'm dutch, he's polish) and adopted our beautiful twins! (I'll call them Jeff and Jane—both 37)

We started everything new, we were quick, I know. but for us this was perfect! This was our amazing life, one we chose and wanted! It was perfect—until recently that is.
About a year ago, Jeff introduced invited his boyfriend EJ(38M) to our house so we could meet him. Pea and I were ecstatic! Jeff always speaks highly about EJ, and we were excited to meet the man who swept him off his feet!!

When we answered to door for them, Jeff introduced us, and called Pea 'ma'am'. I thought this was HILARIOUS and EJ got all red and embarrassed—he apologized profusely, and Pea and I reassured him that it was okay! Although for the remainder of the night, i noticed Pea acting somewhat distant. Jeff spoke to us, asking if Pea was offended by what EJ said, since Pea is normally bright and bubbly. He reassured us that he was okay, yet i could tell he wasn't. That night i tried to get more out of him, but nothing. Instead i made sure to pamper him, calling him my loving husband, and treating him with massages and snacks.

After that everything seemed to be fine again! Months passed and I had essentially forgotten the whole ordeal—until recently a package came in the mail. Pea was at work, and i assumed it was for me, (i had ordered a new vacuum.) I opened it excitedly, i was waiting for this vacuum for a while!! but my excitement turned to confusion when instead it had bras inside? At first i thought it belonged to Jane—she moved back here from school and was using our address as she wasn't fully done the legal work on her new place—but i had called her and she said that it wasn't. maybe it was for someone else? a different address? i texted Pea, asking about it, and he said to just ignore it.

Again, i brushed this off. (didn't seem like a big deal at the time.)

But yesterday i found the box. (I can tell it's the same one 'cause that one was a BITCH to open) I found it opened and hidden in the closet. I asked Pea about it, he froze. i asked if it was for a sexual thing? like lingerie! i didn't get a good look at them, but it could've very well have been lingerie. He shook his head, kissed me and told me not to worry about it.

I'm not worrying! in fact i'm not even the one who worries the most out of us! i'm the laid back one!

But still this whole thing didn't sit right with me. I don't know why but i feel like there something more to this, something he isn't telling me.

This all came back up earlier tonight—I came back home from work, (earlier then usual.) and saw Pea.

He embraced me happily, and i kissed him. I noticed some glitter around his eyes? and his lips seemed a bit tinted. I joking asked if he was trying to doll himself up for me, jokingly calling him 'mommy'. (AS A JOKE)

He got a bit quiet, and the rest of the night till an hour ago went smoothly. I got out of the shower, and noticed Pea getting dressed. His eyes were red and watery, and i quickly ran to him, frantically asking if he was okay or if he was hurt!! the conversation played out like this.

"I'm okay love."
"Baby you're crying! your eyes are red, what happened.  was it what i said earlier?"
"NO!" he yelled a bit. "no—no i'm fine i'm just going out a bit. I'll be home soon. i love you."
"i love you too. can i come? love are you sure you're okay?"
he chuckled, kissed me and nodded. "I'm okay my love. I just need some alone time. I'll be okay."

I watched him leave, and now I'm sitting here. He's been gone for an hour. Do i call him? Does he want me too? I don't know anymore!

I love him, i love him so much. I only want him to feel comfortable as himself! I want the best for him. If he's trans, or a woman of course i'd support him! I did the same for our son (Jeff's female to male) and christ I'm pan! fuck as long as he's happy i don't care what he looks like! How do i tell him this? should i even tell him? I don't know what to do here, please help me reddit!!

I love him so much. seeing him cry broke me. I want him to be happy! I want to see his gorgeous smile again. I hate that he's sad, that he's hurting in some way. Is there anything I can do here to help?

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HEY GUYS IM ALIVE DW

im also sick so that's cool

ANYWAY this is obviously not reddit but if u wanna comment like it is then i'll like reply as pau or something (i'm silly frfr!!)

ALSO YEAH PAU IS WRITING THIS

Pea=Pat
Jeff=Tord
Jane=Talia (Tord's twin sis my boyfriend and i thought of!!)
EJ=Tom

Pau is avid reddit user canon

OH YEAH AND I HAVE A PT 2 PLANNED SO ILL WRITE THAT AFTER SWAG SWAG