Ah yes kids, the little bundles of joy wrapped in smiles and laughter. Kids are awesome if you want them. Sometimes things happen and you end up in situations were your girl is pregnant and your not sure what to do ,she's been hiding it from you for 5 weeks. You talk about what your gonna do about it and eventually it hits you, you realize your having a baby and you lose your self . I lost all my energy and didn't wanna work or do anything cause I knew the baby was on the way and I needed supplies and a home to stay in but having a crap job and barely any money to start with its not a good start to family life. 9 months later the baby comes and your world changes, you want to do everything for your child see them grow up and do things with them and protect them from everything. Years go by you watch them grow, first words, starting to walk, taking picture of all the silly things they do. Kids are the best thing that can happen to you. Now and again it has draw backs its another mouth to feed you have to buy them everything and it takes away from what you wanna do its not your life anymore. So have kids later on in life then early specially if your just starting out because bit gets so hard sometimes. Now if you're having marital issues and have kids your looking at divorce and child support. Its overwhelming your pay check gets a cut and your barely able to live off what you make because you have to a certain amount every month and if you don't pay it the bill just gets higher and higher because they charge a certain amount of interest on it. I think that's a load of crap and unfair but you'll do mostly anything for your children you'll always love them no matter what even if you leave them behind for awhile, It gets better as they get older. Don't be afraid of having kids just make sure your prepared and ready. Well no one is really ready to have kids but we try all the same. I'm still learning what it means to be a parent and learning patience and doing my best not to lose control.
