From the moment we are born to the moment we die we are raised around different forms of beliefs. We bloom into our own person at the young age of 9 at least that's what we are taught to believe.. reality is we are all a machine on copy of paste recreating ourselves through trauma and lust.we are never warned about the thorns from the roses we receive or the fall among the horizon.. we all dream about our happy after in different ways; rather thats love and marriage success and fame or peace and freedom. They never teach us the warning signs but they teach most forgive forget fight for what you love but don't fight for yourself or that makes you selfish, if their fist ever hits your skin you must give it a blind eye as they are your reason to live. They raise us on movies with happy endings marriage and kids. We have all thought about that perfect life with a perfect family a house with a white picket fence.. but no one speaks on what goes on behind close doors. We are raised to stay silent keep your circle small always smile stay to the right side shoulders up no sleeping. We are never taught how to say no, how to walk away, we aren't taught to survive. All we know is tolerance all we know is is pained covered up in makeup and smiles all we know is nothing at all. We aren't taught the important things by being told we learn from experience, and by then it's too late.