Things I don't tweet.

Why am I in the aromantic spectrum.

Let's not talk about a type.
Let's not talk about zodiacs.
Let's not talk about preference.

Why am I in the aromantic spectrum?
I don't see myself being completely and utterly open to someone else. If I have to love someone, I would want to give them my 100%. To be comfortable and to be in their comfort. That is one my conditions for partnerships. To give them my all. To give them what they deserve.

So, yes. I'm never against love. I like love. I like romance.

And yes, I could get in a relationship without ever loving them. Just for the benefits. But would that be me? Is that my standards for love? I hold love so highly. To give a special love even just to a single person, have to be real. If I have to give them. It has to be real. Everyone deserves real love.

Am I not craving romance?
I used to. Do I think it's nice? Of course. I can see how beautiful it is. But I don't want it if it's not real. My soul knows that.

I even believe that love is all that we are. If I have to love someone, I must love doing it too. With all of me.

"I love loving you"

It has to be that. Or nothing.

So am I actively seeking?
Nope.

I like to believe that the universe has its own ways. All I'm going to do is things that I love doing. That's it. I do go on dating apps, be out and about but it was never for the purpose of finding romance if anyone is wondering.

"Are you seriously not gonna do shit about it?"

Yes. It's not something I need. My soul knows that. I know that. I live like that.

That's why I'm in the aro spectrum.

Gates are closed but you can climb over the wall comfortably.