Thoughts on Life

Love

Love is a tricky subject to talk about but I guess ill start off with this. Parents and or older people tell kids around my age(13-15) that we don't know what love really is and that we only think we love someone but we really don't which in all honesty pisses me off. Like what then when we turn 16 and or 17 we just magically do like your trying to tell me I don't love someone when you don't even know how I feel. One time I told my mom that I thought I was in love with someone and she said well explain to me what you think love means and I said to her that I didn't know but I knew I was in love with him and she told me that I wasn't and im just like are you kidding me. Right at this moment I think love is when your with someone that makes you extremely happy like you could be in the biggest pissed mode you have everyone been and you see them and your instantly happy. Every time you see them you get butterflies in your stomach and when they hold you you feel like the most important person in the world. Now I do think the kids who are doing crazy things like having sex at my age because they thought they love someone is crazy but just the simple form of saying you love someone at my age is perfectly fine. Next I also think saying I love you is toxic from somewhat personal experience. When you think you really love someone make sure you truly love that person and if you have only been dating for a few days or even just a month please do not say it yet do not for me personally I would wait for a good solid year and if your still together then defiantly say those words but those words are extremely precious three little words could seal your fate and or you heart and if anything bad happens in terms your screwed. Love is toxic but love can also be a beautiful thing just be careful who your saying it to.

Sincerely yours- Not So Silent Girl