list of words and such that i'm amassing for myself and anyone that finds it helpful
(more descriptive, non-slang) thesaurus
anus/vagina
behind, clamp (down on), him/her/self, hole, loosen, opening, squeeze, stretch, tense
arms
carry, cast, fling, hoist, hold, hike (legs), hitch (legs), hug, hurl, lift, peg, pin, pitch, slam, toss
body (general)
arch, bend, brace, buck (pelvic/knee), buckle (knee), cling, cradle, crevice, cuddle, curl, curve, drop, embrace, entangle, fall, flip, frigid, heave (breath/chest), hook, inch, intertwine, jerk, join, lace, latch, lean, nuzzle, peel, quiver, palpate/palpitation, prop, press, pull, push, raise, rise, rock, shake, shift, shudder, slide, slump, snug, snuggle, spasm, squeeze, squirm, stiff, still, straddle, strap, support, sway, taut (skin), tilt, tower (over), tremble, tremor, twist, vibrate/vibration, weave, wrap, writhe
eyes
close, flutter, gaze, half-lidded, lock, part, shut
fingers/hands
brush, caress, clasp, clench, clutch, cup, encircle, fondle, grab, grasp, grip, insert, knead, linger, palm, pat, pet, pinch, raid, roam, rub, slide, search, scrape, smoothe, stroke, strum, tap, tickle, trace, trail, tug, twirl, wander,
lips
dry, glazed, graze, kiss, love-bite, part, smash
mouth/teeth
bite, blow, breathe, captivate, capture, cavern, chew, devour, engulf, envelope, heave, nibble, nip, ravish, suck, taste
orgasm
climax, come, detonate, eject, erupt, explode, finish, gush, release, spew, spurt,
penis (and its movement)
bulge, cock, charge, drive, enter, erection, exit, him/self, impel, launch, lunge, manhood, member, penetrate, pierce, plunge, pound, propel, pulsate, pulse, ram, retract, retreat, shaft, shove, swell, throb, thrust, twitch, withdraw
sex
affair, consummate, fuck, intimacy/intimate, lovemaking, madness, (moment of) passion, pleasure, round, session, union,
tongue
flick, lap, lick, run along/down/up/across, swirl, twirl
touch (general)
advance, anchor, attach, capture, catch, clash, collide, creep, crush, dance, dip, draw, feast (on), gift, grace, impact, meet, pester, possess/take into possession, ripple, rob, seize, skirt, soothe, steal, surge, surround, tease, tingle,
voice/sounds
croak, cry, croon, gasp, groan, grunt, guttural, hoarse, huff, hum, husky, low, moan, mumble, murmur, mutter, pant, purr, raspy, raw, scream, whimper, yelp
adjectives
aggressive, carnal, crimson, eager, earnest, erogenous, fervent, feverish, fiery, flush/flushed, forceful, frenzied/, heated, honey/honeyed, intense/intensity, mad, manic, passionate, poignant, potent, powerful, raging, raw, rough, sensual, stirring, sweet, turbulent, urgent, violent, vivid, untamed, warm, wild,
pain
ache, hurt, rip, smart, sting, tear, throb, twinge
pleasure
ardor, crave, desire, ecstasy, fire, flame, need, longing, lust, rapture, transport, want, yearning,
verbs of affection
admire, adore, cherish, deify, delight, devote, enchant, enjoy, enrapture, fond, glorify, idolize, relish, obsess, prize, treasure, venerate, worship
for noncon/dubcon (rape, bdsm)
abuse, animalistic, assail, assault, attack, barbaric, batter, beastly, defend, defile, desecrate, destroy, fight (against), force, harass, (take) hostage, intrude, invade, molest, pillage, plunder, resist, savage, shield, strike, struggle, surrender, thrash, torment, violate, yield,
tips
*many fingers/hands verbs can also be used for lips and tongue
*some of the penis verbs can be used for noncon/dubcon, and vice versa
*go wild with your imagination with the body and touch verbs and general adjectives
*certain words for describing the action of inserting and withdrawal can be used for the tongue, fingers, and the penis. common ones are: enter, insert, shove, slide, thrust, withdraw