I couldn't think of any other app I could write about this on that would let me put enough words, so I'm doing it on here.
I hate Lilly contino with a passion. For context (if you don't know who Lilly is) Lilly is a "trans girl on a mission" who posts videos on TikTok and Instagram basically of their transition to fully becoming a female. Stuff like getting hair removal and other stuff that I'll get into as you keep reading.
Lilly has posted a video this year about how, and I quote they "got their cakepops removed and the plan up until recently was to get their *marshmallow wand* reconfigured into a *marshmallow tunnel*". Of course there would be nothing wrong with this when you just read it but if you watch or have watched the video, you will see that they are speaking about this at an outdoor table at Disneyland. A theme park with kids at every corner. They even say at the beginning of their video "I'm gonna get banned from Disney" because they know that it's wrong to speak about their private while at a kids theme park. They go on to say that they noticed hair growth on their wand and how they were really excited for a tunnel. All of this is said in front of tons of kids, strangers, and their mom. Adding onto that, in their lives they said how(if I remember correctly) no kids heard and how they will keep talking about it. They also say how they enjoy how people get angry about it. They've also made a video last year back in August about their partners(might be ex now, not sure) privates, and how they're working to get a full cake pop stick in it. This was in public as well. To say the least it's awful. I'm all for wanting to express yourself and wanting to be comfortable in your body, but when I watch these videos I can't help but think "Does this have to be a topic of discussion in public, at a cafe/restaurant where people eat?" everytime.
Lilly has also posted a compilation that you might've seen, or might've seen people stitch or duet on TikTok. The compilation is of servers misgendering them and calling them he, him, and/or sir. This is something I could understand being a bit upsetting to them but what I hate about it is that 99% of the time, Lilly asks for a manager, even if they apologize. They have no care for if the server gets fired or suspended from their job because they believe their pronouns are more important than a job that could possibly be the only thing keeping those servers stable at the moment.
Another thing is they made a video "explaining" how it is transphobic to not want to date trans people, saying "now is there an argument to be made that the parts down there are something you don't like? I think that for 99% of the examples here, that's not the case, and that it really does stem from transphobia. "Really? Like how do you actually have the audacity to say that if someone isn't attracted to you it's because they have a phobia against you? Have you stopped to think that maybe they have a preference on sex? Cause I personally wouldn't date a trans person, not because I have a phobia but because I have a preference.
A video they posted this week is of them saying trans women can produce milk that is healthy for a baby and It got a stitch by another creator (edenthedoll) saying how they can't and there are some things trans women can't do and how that is one of them. How anyone who let's their baby suck on that persons chest should be in prison. I fully agree with this, and everything else said in her video. Yes, males can produce milk, but it can take years to be able to even get a little out so at that point don't do it. Plus, Lilly says they'll never have kids, so why are you talking about this?
[I just got off of their live and I want to add into this that they were talking about how nobody is looking at them or paying any attention to them. Which goes to show how oblivious they are to the fact people can still clearly hear them]
The last thing I'll add is how I hate that they make videos trying to prove a fiction character is trans or how a movie is about transitioning. Just leave it be, yeah?
It's people like him who ruin the reputation of LGBTQ+ members, and why a lot of people won't support them. All it takes is these kinds of things and people can easily get the wrong impression.
