Hey, beautiful soul. Let me dive into something simple yet powerful: listening. It is one of those quiet acts that carries real weight in my relationships. When someone opens up to me, they are not just talking, they are inviting me into their inner world, sharing their thoughts and emotions, trusting me with something real and raw.
Interrupting someone is not just a break in conversation; it is like closing a door on their thoughts. It sends an unspoken message that what they are saying does not matter, and that can make them feel ignored, dismissed, or just unheard. That is why it is so important for me to let them speak fully, no matter how long it takes. Because listening is not just about hearing words; it is about understanding, connecting, and empathizing.
When I listen with intention, I am showing them that their words, their thoughts, that they themselves matter to me. It is about being in the moment, giving them the space to share openly, and picking up on the layers within their words. Often, hidden in those words, I find something meaningful, a piece of their heart, a worry they have been carrying, or a quiet joy they want to share. These are the moments that strengthen bonds and lead to real understanding.
So, the next time someone confides in me, I will try to hold back the urge to jump in with my own thoughts or solutions. I will just let them speak. I will let their words flow, and I will listen not only with my ears but with my heart. I might be amazed at what I discover and how much closer I feel to them.
Because in the end, listening is a gift, not just for them, but for myself too. It builds connection, deepens empathy, and fills my life with richer, more meaningful relationships. I want to embrace the power of listening and watch how it transforms the way I connect with others.
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The Diary Of A Creative Boy
PoetryA collection of lessons I've learned over the years