Taekook
A second chance to life part 7
Author pov :
Jungkook is sitting near the window of his room. Looking at the tree in front of him, he can see that there is a nest in which there are mama bird And some chicks of her.
Mama bird who is extremely protective of her young chicks. She refuses to let them leave the nest, fearing they might get hurt or encounter predators. While her intentions are good, the chicks grow weak and frail from lack of exercise and exploration. They don't develop the necessary skills to fly, hunt, or navigate their surroundings.
Meanwhile, a neighboring bird family allows their chicks to venture out, learn from their mistakes, and gain essential life skills. These chicks grow strong, confident, and prepared for the challenges of the wild.
The overprotective mother bird, like overprotective parents, may inadvertently limit her chicks' freedom and hinder their development, while the neighboring bird family's approach allows their chicks to thrive and gain valuable experience.
Just like jungkook's parents, they are extremely overprotective towards him. He don't want to be a doctor but his parents forced him to become one. He does not have enough freedom to take his own decisions, his parents are always the ones who decide for him.
When he was in his high school times , he always wanted to go out for tuition but his parents did not let him because they were afraid that this boy might spoil our name by staying in the company of other children.
If he did not get good marks and other children got good marks, then his parents used to shout a lot but who told his parents that the other children used to go to tuition due to which they used to get good marks, they did not study at home like him, if other children were good at anything, their parents always compared them with those children but they did not know that those children take classes for all those things like drawing class, art & craft class, swimming classes or any other class.
If he laughed too much then his mother used to shout at him, if he was not sitting properly then she would make him sit properly, if he was eating too much then she would stop him so that his figure remains maintained. They would not even allow him to go out alone to buy some things, they would always stop him in every small thing, there were always restrictions and prohibitions in every thing.
His parents were forgetting that in the process of to keep him safe, they were taking away his freedom and in return giving him a lot of anxiety and insecurity.
Nowadays children are not afraid of what others will think but they are afraid of what their parents will think. Children are afraid that their parents will not support them if they do something good or they will stop them because no one outside will approve of this even if their parents believe it to be true.
And due to this fear, children hide things from their parents and do not tell them what they are doing, why they are doing it, how they are doing it and because of this sometimes they fall into bad company.
They consider their parents as their enemies and strangers as their friends, no matter how wrong that stranger is or how much wrong he is doing to them, but getting influenced by their sweet talks and consider their parents as their enemies. This is the story of every teenage child.
Teenage is such an age where we have to teach children what is right and what is wrong, and not stop them from doing or learning anything, rather they should be taught and guided that what they want to learn, what they want to do, is it wrong, its advantages and disadvantages, the reason for teeth should be explained to them lovingly by sitting with them and becoming their friend, and not by stopping them.
