Tony Stark:
Your biggest insecurity with Tony is that he's constantly out of your reach. It's not that he doesn't care—he does, in his own chaotic, unpredictable way—but his world is vast, filled with people, technology, projects, and a constant stream of distractions. You often feel like just another piece of his busy puzzle, and you fear that if you don't keep up, you'll get left behind. He's brilliant, charming, and always the center of attention, and there are moments where you feel like you're standing in his shadow. You wonder if he truly sees you or if you're just a passing interest in his fast-paced, high-stakes life. Even when he's with you, it's like his mind is somewhere else, a million miles away, working on the next breakthrough, thinking of the next big thing. You feel inadequate sometimes, wondering if you're enough to hold his attention, to be a part of his life when there's always something new, exciting, or more important. You love him deeply, but the fear of being insignificant in the grand scale of his world looms over you, making you question whether you'll ever truly be his priority.
Bruce Banner:
Dating Bruce means dealing with the constant fear that he'll pull away, not because he doesn't care but because he's afraid he'll hurt you. His insecurity about the Hulk—about what he could become in a moment of stress or anger—creates an emotional wall that you struggle to break through. You're scared that, despite how much you care for him, he'll always see himself as a monster, and you'll be left on the outside of his heart, never fully trusted with his vulnerability. Every quiet moment together is shadowed by the unspoken tension of what he could turn into, and you're left wondering if he'll ever let himself believe he deserves love, deserves you. The constant push and pull between wanting to be close to him and respecting his boundaries wears on you, making you question if you're strong enough to handle the emotional distance. You fear that one day, he'll decide that loving you is too dangerous, that being with you isn't worth the risk, and he'll disappear into the wind like he has before, leaving you with nothing but memories of the man you tried to love.
Thor Odinson:
With Thor, your insecurity stems from the fact that he's a god and you're just... mortal. There's a deep-rooted fear that one day, he'll realize how different you are from the divine beings he's used to. You're not Asgardian, not part of his world of grandeur, and sometimes you feel like you're constantly trying to prove your worth in a relationship where you fear you'll never be his equal. He's kind, loving, and protective, but there's always this lingering doubt in the back of your mind that he could do better, that he deserves someone who could stand beside him as an equal. Every time you see him interact with other Asgardians, that fear deepens, and you worry that he'll eventually grow tired of the limitations of being with someone who will age, get hurt, and eventually fade, while he remains ageless. It's a terrifying thought, that someday your mortality will be the thing that pushes him away, and you'll be left wondering if you were ever truly meant to be a part of his immortal life.
Loki Laufeyson:
Being with Loki means dealing with constant self-doubt, not because of anything he does intentionally, but because of who he is. He's charming, manipulative, and so intelligent that you sometimes feel outmatched in every conversation, every interaction. You wonder if he's playing some long game with your heart, if he's truly capable of loving you, or if this is just another trick, another illusion he's created. You love him fiercely, but the insecurity that he's never fully honest with you eats away at your peace. You can't help but question if you're just another pawn in his endless schemes, and the fear that one day he'll grow bored or find someone more interesting, more challenging, haunts you. His past, filled with betrayal and deception, only fuels your worry, and no matter how many times he reassures you in his own way, you can't shake the feeling that you're never fully on solid ground with him. You fear that trusting him will be your downfall, that loving him will leave you broken, and yet, you can't imagine being without him, even if it means living with this constant unease.
