The Little Beauty in the Courtyard

Chapter 141-150

　　Chapter 141 State of Mind

　　Lin Xi felt that he and Zhou Yunyun were not yet at the stage of being friends.

　　She generally doesn't try to "make friends" with anyone on purpose. She usually does so with some purpose or at least some reason.

　　And, to be honest, she didn't seem to like Zhou Yunyun's personality very much.

　　But the look he gave Zhou Yunyun at this moment showed that he was risking everything. She understood how she felt at the moment, so she didn't want to say anything to hurt her.

　　She thought about it and smiled, "Friends are made by being together, not by talking. We are not elementary school students."

　　She said it lightly, but she still noticed that Zhou Yunyun's expression suddenly darkened.

　　She sighed in her heart, then turned and said, "Hey, Zhou Yunyun, let me tell you, if you fall in love with a man in the future, you must not use this look to ask him if you can be his girlfriend. If you do something wrong, let him tell you... If you do this, you will suffer a great loss in the future."

　　At this point she frowned, looked at Zhou Yunyun carefully, her expression turned serious, and said, "It's true, you have to love yourself, don't put your heart and value on others, and remind yourself all the time."

　　She finally understood why Zhou Yunyun always gave her a heavy feeling.

　　Because she may have been accustomed to doing something for others since she was a child to get her parents' approval. She can only get her parents' approval by sacrificing for her brother, praising Xu Dan, and pleasing Xu Dan.

　　She always has to do something to get other people's approval.

　　Instead, she thinks that if she is good, she will get the affirmation of those who love her.

　　For example, if she gets the first place in the exam, her parents may not even give her an extra look when she goes back. But if she washes clothes for her brother, cooks a meal for her parents, and helps Xu Dan with his duty, her parents may praise her, and she will get that sense of satisfaction. Over time, it becomes a habit... Why many people cannot break free from their original families? Because the mark left by their original families is so deep that some things are engraved in their bones, and their thinking and spirit have long been imprisoned in that value system.

　　She felt a little sad when she thought of this, and told her: "You deserve the best, someone who truly loves you, even if it's just a friend, you deserve a friend who truly likes and loves you."

　　Even if we can't be very close friends, it doesn't mean you are a bad person, we just have different personalities.

　　To you, I am nothing.

　　Zhou Yunyun stared at Lin Xi as he left.

　　She stood there for a while, then turned around and saw Teacher Hou's lover.

　　She was looking at her tenderly.

　　When Zhou Yunyun saw the concern in her eyes, her eyes warmed up.

　　Teacher Hou's lover stepped forward, put his arm around her, and said with a smile, "I heard she's a very good kid, but compared to her, I like you better."

　　Zhou Yunyun looked up at her.

　　Teacher Hou's wife smiled and said, "You are more down-to-earth, but she is right. Let's go."

　　Because Lin Xi doesn't lack love and there is no special relationship between them, they won't be closer.

　　But Zhou Yunyun is different. She needs her care and love. If you treat her well, she will give her more trust and love in return, so it can arouse her feelings deep in her heart. This is the difference.