'I am not a sample size, and I am okay with that. I'm good with who I am. I like to accentuate the positive. My waist is something I love to show off. I'm also happy that more and more women are embracing who they are, because everybody's different. You don't have to be a size 0 to be pretty. You just have to be comfortable with who you are.' Jordin Sparks.
People really need to stop insulting me and all of the other girls who is a little more curvier than the others. Every time you call us "fat" or any other insulting names it hurts us more than you know. First of all we are not "Pigs" or "Cows" or "whale." We are not those animals we are human girls and women who is made by God. Although we do have some unwanted fats in our bodies it doesn't mean that we can flatten a tire when we sit on a vehicle or make a road crack just by walking on it. Does it ever occur to you that we also have feelings?
Do you know how much we have gone through just to fit in your stupid standards of being "perfect"? Do you know how many tears we shed just because no matter how many times we tried we cannot be those skinny sexy models that you see? Or how many meals we have missed in a day just so that we can lose some weight? Sometimes we don't even eat a single meal in a whole freaking day. Everyday we battle our insecurities, our depression because some people never know when to stop. The true beauty is on the inside and never on the outside. You should start seeing that not the size of the body because it will never last and we all know it, but we are so consumed in the idea of having the perfect body meaning everybody will adore you or admire you. Really? What about our personality? What about our talents? What about our brains? Does that even occur to you that we can be admired for that?
I'm not perfect, I have stretch marks, I have fat legs and arms, I don't have a flat stomach nor a beautiful radiant white skin and I have pimples in my face. I admit that I used to believe that I was the ugliest person, but now I see that I'm imperfect but I love myself because GOD loves me for me. Whether you like me or not I don't give a sh*t! Live your life and I'll live mine. If you ever try to judge me you gotta make sure first that you are perfect because only God can judge me not you.
Lastly, Please for every girl who thinks that your fat and you need to lose some weight just to impress those people DON'T even try! Because you will never satisfy them ever! You are only fooling yourself you don't need them you only need GOD and nobody else. To him you are perfect. Don't listen to those insecure people! Eat what you want to eat! Wear what you want to wear & live your dreams. Let them be! For GOD IS ALWAYS AT YOUR SIDE NO MATTER WHAT! Whether you like it or not. And he will always love you for you and you will always be beautiful and perfect to him. So chin up, hold your head high and smile confidently & know that he is always beside you and someone loves you for you.
You may not be like those other girls, you may not have their fabulous life, just remember to live you own life don't bother wasting your time trying to be them just do you and be your own happy self :) Because being someone else is depressing. But loving yourself can lift you up every time and remember every body have their own insecurities and problems so appreciate what you have :)
Love every scar, every fat, every craziness, every smile and laugh that you have because we are all unique :) We are meant to be that way. :)
That's all GOD BLESS U! :)
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Gabby :)
