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how to be a heartbreaker

If you've been played one too many times, you might be thinking of turning into a heartbreaker yourself. Confidence is key. Interested in learning more? Then keep reading.

1 Have fun. Simply put, people who look like they're having fun give the impression that they are more fun to be around. One of the quickest ways to attract attention is present yourself in a fun-loving, light-hearted way.This is easier to accomplish in some settings than it is in others, so choose your night-on-the-town spot carefully. For example, a club, party, or any event that involves dancing is a great avenue to showcase your fun side. In this sort of setting, dance like you don't care who watches. Doing so projects confidence and a certain carefree mood.Smile often even when you don't necessarily feel like it. Laugh at jokes, even when they aren't necessarily funny.Control your laugh. A tinkling, flirtatious giggle will attract more positive attention than a boisterous guffaw.

2 When in a crowd of strangers, take the chance to make eyes at a few potential targets. Some may be turned off by the notion that they have competition, but others will either accept the challenge or find your obvious self-confidence attractive.Another advantage created by this situation is that you project a certain boldness, suggesting that you can be just as happy without any given man on your arm as you will be with one. This may seem counter-intuitive at first, but you are, in some ways, throwing down the proverbial gauntlet and giving the guys around you a challenge.When approached by someone in particular, though, focus most of your attention on him. In order to be a heartbreaker, you will need to offer at least a little hope that the interaction might progress into something more.

3 Flaunt your best features. Wear clothes that flatter your figure and draw attention to your best features while masking any features you may feel less-than-satisfied about.If you have a wide midsection or minimal curves, highlight your natural waist by wearing a belt or choosing a top that cinches in at the waist. This also works well if you are trying to downplay large hips. By drawing attention to your waist, you accentuate the curves of your figure and balance out your overall body shape.If you have a slim figure and you want to draw attention to that fact, wear tops, dresses, and skirts in straight cuts. To prevent the look from being boxy, make sure that you wear clothes that match your size. Oversized clothes will make you look frumpy.If you want to draw attention to your bust, wear necklines that naturally draw the eye to the bust. Deep v-necks sweetheart necklines, and halter tops are all worth considering. Also consider wearing tops and dresses with embellishment or decoration near the neckline or bust.If you want to draw attention to your hips or legs, wear skirts with a lot of detail. Think along the lines of frills, ruffles, and embellishments. On the other hand, a tight pencil skirt can also look attractive if you have the legs for it.

4 Less is more. Only spray a little perfume along the pulse points of your body--most notably, your wrists, the back of your knees, behind your ears, and at the front base of your neck. Spraying too much perfume can make it hard for people to be around you, let alone fall all over themselves to be near you.

5 Move on. Avoid frequenting the same spots too often to avoid running into the same crowd. As more people begin recognizing you within a given crowd, you may start to build up a reputation as a heartbreaker, and even new people may stop approaching you.