Free yourself from judgements and complaining (in front of yourself and others)
To me, it's the absolute rule number one! Because, how can you be happy if the only thing you do is complaining yourself to others? It doesn't matter if your best friend or the people in all these magazines are skinnier or prettier than you. Didn't you ever realize that skinny, thin, pretty, perfect, beautiful, fat, ugly, "not good enough" or anything else (can't think about more words) are just
1st empty words. If these words wouldn't excist, you wouldn't call Jennifer Lawrence perfect and you wouldn't call "Fat Amy" fat. The only thing you'd think probably is 'Well, we doesn't look the same but whatever'. Because nobody would have a definition of these words. (the same with time)
2nd doesn't define your personality. Sure there are a lot people who judge from the way you look like. But maybe if you aren't that skinny, not to say fat, you're either happy with your body or don't. And if don't, better move your ass to have to body you want to have. This whole "I'm one of these kids who magically turn hot after High School." doesn't excist. But more for that later.
3nd if people judge you, they aren't worth it. They aren't worth any tears, they aren't worth any worries, they aren't worth any attention from your side.
Got it? Good.
Well, now the complaining part is clarified so lets get to the judgemental part where we won't show any little piece of judgement.
The only thing you should remember, do not judge anyone. Because I want to be honest, remember that it's okay to judge, if you know the person and if you have reasons to judge them. But it's not okay, if you really want to be happy. And I mean totally happy. Like, such a happy person who poop's the pure happiness and everyone around you will be happy again and together you can be hippies because you are such peaceful and happy people.
Got that?!
Because judging is nothing than bad thoughts. And bad thought's aren't good huh? No, of course they aren't. Because they are the opposite of good ones. Comprede, my little spanish speakers?
And honestly, judging is pointless to be anyway.
So what? This 15-year-old is pregnant and doesn't know who's the father.
So what? This fat kid eats pizza everyday and is habitue at MDonalds
It's their life, not yours. Let they do what they want because, well I mean, why don't you life your life instead of worrying what other people do with their life's?
Okay, I think you understood what I was trying to say, huh?
