"I had a best friend. She did things behind my back and treated me terribly. She blamed me for her mistakes and now she is saying that I am a jerk and that we will never be best friends again. I don't want to be best friends with someone who will treat me like this, but I didn't want her to say "goodbye forever". I don't want to talk to her because she's so mean. But I've been crying and crying.How do I become happy again?"
People might say it's good that you're finally free from her but I understand how you are feeling right now. It's not easy to let go of someone whom you trust and care so much and someone who you call your 'best friend'. You're having mixed feelings whether to move on or go on begging her to stay. You know, true friendship is when two (or three?) people consider each other's well-being to be as valuable as your own. It's accepting each other for who they are and considering the fact that everyone is unique and has different attitudes/traits, it results to fights and misunderstandings. Take note that every friendship encounters fights and misunderstandings. Her horrible treatment to you might be temporary and she might realize her mistakes and come back and apologize. But I think it's best to let go of her. I honestly think it is an unhealthy friendship if you're the one who's only doing their job as a friend but the other isn't valuing the friendship at all. So I think you should let go of her but be open for her if she comes back. Just like what they say, "If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were."
And on how you become happy again? Talk and hangout to new people or your other friends. Don't forget that she's not the only person on earth. Never lose hope on friendship. There are 7 billion people on earth and you haven't even met half of them!
Hoped that help!
- Riley ♡
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Random❝Friends talk to each other but real friends listen.❞ - Riley Matthews. Advice-Giving book.
