The reason we think first love is beautiful isn't because people we first loved were actually pretty, or handsome. It's because we were unconditional, innocent, or a bit stupid at the time of first love. And because we know that we can never go back to those young,passionate days. First love is a bit rash. Without any calculation we throw ourselves with passion and finally face failure. But at the same time it's dramatic. It comes with inexplicable feelings that we never get to face again. So first love becomes the most dramatic moment of our lives. It's okay to fall. Tragic stories stay longer than 'happily ever after.' It's nice to have that wonderful story as a chapter of one's life. First love is a period of time. It never comes back. If the next love comes, time has to yield for that new love. It might not be as innocent as first love, but it would be a little more mature, due to the pain of first love. A person who dreams of love, is the one who waits. And a person who waits can recognize love when it comes near him/her. After the romance, real life comes in. Innocence gets dirty, passion gets old, and youth gets old with cleverness. So first love becomes part of one's exhausted daily life. That's why first love looks like it can't be accomplished. Because no one talks about a successful romance with first loves. Thus, it's okay to be like this.
