Self-mutilators usually adapt a behavior of depression or low self-esteem. Low self - esteem has a direct impact on patterns of a personal attachment. Recovery from self-harm is really hard. Once you make that first cut, its an addiction. When the body is injured, hormones called endorphins are released to fight anxiety, agitation, and depression. When someone who self- harm talks to a therapist about it, they start to trust the therapist and become close to them.
One self-mutilator takes it upon themselves to find out how much one body can endure. Parents takes most part in self- harming behavior with there kids. A second major element is the family members and the self-harming child.
When someone's child self-harm and the parent takes action, it could lead to the following;
· Financial stress
· Employment or unemployment stress
· Chronic illness
· Emotional disorders, most commonly depression.
· Alcoholism
· Drug abuse
· Marital incompatibility
· Divorce
· Death of spouse
A child who experiences any manifestation of parental stress, stemming from any situations just described, may choose self-harm or self-mutilating because him/her needs to release some negative feelings. Emotional distress, must be discussed and made part of the recovery.
The task of the situation is more difficult than you'd expect. A lot of self-harmers likes to hide there scars because it makes others upset they see scars.
Teenage depression. I don't think there is a such thing as that. If your depressed, your depressed. It's not a thing for teenagers because if it was ALL teenagers would be depressed but they are not. It's just the ones that has a lot of stress on there back and goes trough some tough shit on a daily basis. There is no such thing as Teenage depression. If someone tell you that's what it is. Tell them to fuck off, even if it is a doctor because I think it's ridiculous.
When someone says the cutter or cutting yourself is a joke. Its not. You shouldn't do that, more than %60 of the world has died because of self-mutilation. I'm just telling you, anyone that harms themselves in any kind of way. You're beautiful. Don't listen to jerks, the have no idea what you go through.
I'm sorry my book was so short. I just really liking helping people through things. I am hoping this helped a lot. I understand what a lot of you guys are going through. I cut a lot. I wanted to help people as my career because my therapist helped me. I really enjoyed that feeling of being help.
I love all my beauties ❤
Hope you liked my book!
Get better.
Trust me.
Its gonna get better.
Just have some faith.
Byeee ✌
