When we think about them, we don't think about THEM we think about what WE used to be. When we miss them, we DONT miss them personally, we miss them as a person. When we cry, it's not because we're being stubborn and won't let go, it's because we're frustrated and
have to deal with the fact they're
gone. When we reminisce it's not because we miss them, it's because you can't honestly act like someone never excited. When we drink obnoxiously, it's not because we're becoming alcoholics. It's because, we need something to distract us. When we ask, "how could this happen to me?" . It's not because we're being cry babies. It's because, we really want to know "How The F*ck did this happen?" You don't know a person who's hurt on the inside, you only know their actions. And with those actions there are reasons behind them. Deeper than anyone but themselves would know. Breakups, aren't easy for some people, and you can't force someone to move on or let go of there ex partner. Because 9/10 it's not something someone can just FORGET ABOUT. You can't tell anyone with a broken heart what to do. They have to have the strength to do so themselves. Some people's hearts are to big for their bodies. So letting go, is an issue. But again, when someone's thinking of someone, don't be flattered. It's not YOU exactly that they miss. They miss who you USED to be.. Nothing's consist anymore.
