Before you enter in a relationship make sure that you will accept the risks that may occur.
- This is one of the lessons that I learned in my present relationship.
My boyfriend and I are already 2 years and 6 months. In these days, weeks, months, and years together we have already encountered lots of problems which somehow brought us in the point of GIVING UP, but we didn't. Why? It’s because we believe in the POWER OF LOVE.
I will share to you the one of the most difficult challenges that we faced that was happened last July 02. He was already asleep while I was still doing my news article in one of my major subjects (anyway I am a Mass Communication student) then suddenly there was like someone who whispered in my ear to open the FB account of my boyfie (I really don't know why I followed that command). So I opened it, looked at the pictures that were tagged to him, there was nothing to bother. Unexpectedly I clicked the account of his classmate who's the one tagged the pictures. I viewed the album where the pictures are located; I eyed those one by one. Surprisingly I saw a heartbreaking picture of him with someone else plus his hand holding the waist of that someone :(
I immediately texted him saying … “Hindi ko na alam kung kelan pa ko maniniwala sa power ng love, sayo.. lalo na kung may ebidensiya na ko. Salamat sa lahat, mag-iingat ka na lang at PAALAM”, I ended our relationship without even hearing his explanations and without even considering the Love that we build and shared through these years.
Since he was already sleeping when I sent the text message definitely he’ll be reading that when he became awake. I didn’t greet him ‘Good Morning’, I didn’t asked him if he already ate his breakfast or lunch, I didn’t say ‘ingat sa school, I love you’, in short I was trying to forget him.
Few hours have passed, I was riding a jeep when I received a text message from him.. “Pag nakauwi ka na itext mo ko pupunta ako sa inyo, kailangan nating pag-usapan ‘to.” But I did not reply. When I Got home, he was there sitting on our sofa. He gave me a not-so-sure smile and I just looked at him blankly. He was pleading to talk to him but I was still ignoring him; acting like I don’t see his presence. 11:00 pm he was still in our house (naawa na ko kaya sige kakausapin ko na, pansinin ko na). He started explaining while I’m listening in every word that he uttered. “Sorry na babe, mahal na mahal kita wala naman yun ee alam mo naming ikaw lang ang mahal ko, sorry na ohh patawarin mo na ko.” I responded “If you really mean you’re sorry then don’t say it just do it babe, alam mo kung gaano kita kamahal, kaya please tama na yung ganito. Sorry rin for judging you.”
At the end of the day, we realized that in every hard situation that we may encounter we must accept the risks that may occur because if both of you are very willing to love each other until the end of time those risks are just dirt that can be removed anytime.
We are still counting days, weeks, months and years because we believe that LOVE is POWERFUL if you believe it.
May GOD bless us and gives us more years
