hello friends, so i hoped you read my previous part of this story related to friendships. Well, today we will be taking a look at most teenagers' trap in school or in general. Yes, it is Relationship. Even now, the word might bring back some bitter sweet memories for some. Practically speaking, we were the ones who fell in the trap knowing that it might be dangerous. Well, so love basically starts by 2 hearts accepting each other or well sometimes it might even be a one sided relationship. Okay now im going to go in depth on this issue. many questions should be popping into your mind in this moment. questions like; "how do i know if they like me?", "Do they know i like them?", "Do they expect me to do something?". These questions are common. but how do you answer them? that is what i will be going through today. firstly, falling in love isn't that difficult as it really seems. people emphasize the emotions too much i would say. but getting in a relationship/dating might be rather tough. okay lets imagine a scenario. you see your hot crush walking past you in school. you want to approach them and tell your love to them. but you are scared of getting rejected. well at this point of time, think about how long you were waiting for this opportunity. there is a chance of your crush accepting you. right? at least 50%? so imagine you actually telling him about it and him accepting you. wouldn't that be the best thing ever? it would right? what do you lose? maybe a slight amount of ego. but this wise action has got you to get what you want. and imagine not doing so for life, you would be alone having this strong desire but nothing actually coming true. so lets talk about being INSIDE the relationship. this might seem unfair but the key to a successful & healthy relationship is UNDERSTANDING & PATIENCE. this two combined will provide you with an amazing relationship. fights, mishaps, arguments are all bound to happen because NO relationships are ever perfect. lets say you and your partner get into an argument and both of you fight for hours not actually knowing the source of the argument. but if one of you actually stopped, gave in during the fight, it wouldn't have been such a mess, wouldn't it? that is why im stressing the point that UNDERSTANDING each other is a critical factor which has the power to save a relationship from falling apart. In conclusion i just want to say that having a relationship isn't something you can rush into. take your time, think who is actually matched for you and why do really want them. don't be foolish about this matter because this is a very important factor. A Wrong CHOICE, Might End You Up With A Wrong LIFE.
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until then, Jeremy -
