My Opinion on The Waste His Time 2016 hashtag on Twitter

Honesty Hour

Honestly let's take a moment to reflect on this hashtag first of the all when I saw the hashtag in the first place I thought this has to be a joke right but nope it's a actual hashtag & some of the reasons are just plain rude & pathetic not to mention childish these are grown women coming up with petty reasons to just hurt the men / significant other or just a guy friend  ( I know the hashtag is funny to other people but it isn't to me because the only thing you are doing is hurting them by saying these things to them lets say for example  : if you've been dating a guy for a long time eventually he is going to start imagine a future with you he tells you things that he hasn't told anyone before he's showing you his vulnerable side / the raw side of himself by opening up to you and at first he thinks you are different from the other girls who he has dated in his past he's now in that mindset of this girl really gets me she is so unique and different how you ask she's not petty doesn't start drama etc. but imagine his disappointment in you when you say one of these phrases to him , he is obviously in shock & taken back but here's the kicker he thought you were different from them & he thought you had a different mindset/ vibe

But in reality you aren't different from them so you ask yourself why is he distancing himself from me / not talking to me i thought we had something special I guess not but you need to remind yourself that your the one who drove him away by getting his hopes up & making him think that he could trust you if your intention was to waste his time in the first place then he's not the problem here you are

if this was your motive all along then you need to reevaluate yourself and discover yourself first before you ever think of dating in general or again you need to realize that people's emotions & time shouldn't be played with at all and you also have to realize that after you've hurt his feelings / shattered his trust completely things won't go back to the way it was before you did this to him

What you failed to realize is whatever relationship you guys had before is gone no matter how many times you try to apologize saying I didn't mean it or it was a mistake don't lie to yourself you knew your motives / intentions when you entered this relationship

Maybe your thinking man I played this guy so good he didn't even know what was coming when i told him whatever phrase you decided to tell him but in reality you played yourself & downgraded yourself because you cheated yourself out of loyalty a guy who was proud to call you his girlfriend / show you off to the world & told you positive words everyday just imagine how hard it was for him to build up the courage to ask you out while taking the risk of rejection

Because in general it takes a lot of courage for a guy to admit that he likes you & ask you out

Guys have feelings too & their emotions/ thoughts are valid

And ask yourself how many other guys would do this for me ( * loyal guys are rare & hard to find * )

So be thankful that you had a loyal guy in your life ( who unfortunately  you didn't cherish when you had the chance to but all has been said & done you can't go back & try to rewrite the past only move forward )

Also note that no matter how many guys / men that you plan to date in the future

No guy will ever replace the first guy who you were in a real first relationship with ( who embraced your flaws / quirks )

So with that being said that it is hard for guy just like it is for a girl to admit your feelings