Does he love you? Part 2

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OK LADIES . I am back. 

Last time we talked about , basically how to understand a boy. NOW we are going to go into the Juicy details 

Boys.   Are.   Completely.   Stupid.   When it comes to a girl. 

IF he calls you up on the phone every day and his first sentence is " Hey baby Girl , I was sittin around here missing u. "  DON'T MAKE ME LAUGH. 

What is wrong with this sentence?? IT'S A LIE. First off , if he talks like this . 78% of the time he is one of the ( What Caramel Likes to call ) Freaky guys. 

What I am trying to say is ........ he only wants you for your body. 

Remember last time when I said boys were normally busy ? Look he woulden't tell you he was missing you UNLESS he wanted attention.  And when I say he wants attention..... It's Like your the fish . and he is the man waiting for his prize at the end of the line.

DO you want a real relationship ladies?? SET YOUR PRIORITIES. YOU are the one in charge of your body.  Not him . 

I don't care if he sais he will take you to Starbucks or ( No matter how tempting ) to Gamestop . Don't let him bribe you . and if he does try to bribe you for sex . ( I'm gonna speak in Madea's voice here) 

HE

Ain't right for ya girl. He only wants ya for yer body . 

Here is another way to realize he is wrong. 

If your sittin ( OH GEEZE WHEN I GET MA I TALK IN COUNTRY ) near that boy and he slides his hand up your thigh ... ( HOLD UP ) You grab that hand and you slap him with it .  or you could go for the classic kick in the .... I need to slow down....

If he gives you sexual touches and you ain't 18 yet . He isn't for you. Only when he puts a ring on that finger can you be sure he doesn't just want you for your body.  I'm telling you !!! Don't let him take advantage of you. Your body is YOUR property. 

If he Cares about you

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If he Cares about you . You can talk to him ( Now yall know that boys suck at talking ) and if he attempts to make you laugh or tries to make you feel better "* No sexual ways ladies* in his own way. Then he is really trying

A Boys natural healing skill is making you laugh. If he uses his talent and makes you laugh, cares about you, and can make you smile. 

He is a keeper. 

Sometimes this happens

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Sometimes this happens. 

If he cares about you , Like really cares. Comes to you when you need him . Hugs you when you need a hug. Respects your wishes ( Like if you asked him  not to touch you ) . and it hurts him not to be near you. Then don't let him go . 

If you think it would be best for him to leave you because your'e not " Good enough" and he stays . Then he is YOUR guy. 

But... If he leaves. Then he never was. 

I hope you guys found this useful. I'll update later. Comment what you need advice on what you need help with . or if you need to talk to me about a question Message me . TheLegitReadz

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