Letters From My Heart

Self-Hate

Dear Reader,                                        4-9-16
I want to start this letter off by asking you a question. What is it that you think of yourself? Take a minute to think about it. Are you strong? Beautiful? Kind? The answer is that you're all of the above. You are beautiful, strong and kind. You are more than what people expect or see. You might be in a place where you think that you can't be happy. You are wrong. You deserve to live. Your happiness is the only thing worth fighting for.
Sometimes you might feel as if everyone is going one way and your going the other. You might feel like your stranded in your misery and it makes you hate yourself. Don't feel that way. Learn to accept yourself, it is hard but you can get there. At the end of the day, you have to wake up with yourself everyday and you should only change for you. Don't let anyone change you. Your flaws make you who you are and you shouldn't want to change them. You are perfect- all your flaws included.
You can't be the same person forever. Experiences help shape you. If you ever feel that you are not worthy, just know that they're people that love you out in the world. You have a life to live. Find something you love. Embrace it. You are beautiful and you don't need me or anyone else l tell you this.
Spread your opinion. Don't regret anything. Be confident because your opinions because they help make who you are. Looks don't matter, they don't make you pretty or ugly. Your heart and soul decide that.
Gossip. It's probably the reason why you hate yourself. All of that isn't important. Don't let it bring you down. Your better than that gossip. You are better than the person spreading it. If your the person spreading it- stop yourself. Not only are you hurting yourself, but you are hurting others as well.
To end off. I want to tell you this- no matter what gender, race, or color you are, you are beautiful. Life is worth living. You have a future. Don't you want to see what it is? Live life and enjoy it. No matter how much pain you are going through- all of this is shaping who you will become in the future. People out in the world love you and need you. If you don't believe it, I love you. You might not know me but I guarantee that I will listen to you. If you are ever in the need to talk about things troubling you, private chat with me. I will listen and help the best I can.
Spread positive attitude, love and support.
Xoxo,
Nancy