what is love?

Why Must Love Be So Difficult ? 💕😋

Chapter 1

She observed the boy silently from a safe distance. Drowned entirely in tears. The boy stood still for quite a while, until he suddenly moved towards her. His personality is what automatically drew her to the boy. The boy seemed to taunt her with his actions and smile. But she was DONE with him. She started walking away drowned in tears. Her eyes swollen and very puffy. She finally comes and meets him face to face in the hallway. She automatically starts balling into tears. He holds her tightly and she tries to push him off. She looked at him and whispers in his ear "you are not the love of my life anymore, you cheated and broke me into pieces!" As she was telling him, she could feel tears falling from his face onto her shirt. So she slowly pulled away and walked away from him.

If you ask any teenager,adult or even a senior citizen "What is love?", their answers will almost always be different. Love involves feelings, romanticized by music, poems, and media. Intimacy is based on what seems so ideal. Our deepest love can sometimes hurt or break us. When we express love, we develop a very strong attachment with your boyfriend, spouse or significant other. What do I receive out of the relationship? What does my "significant other" think about our so called love? Our feelings are always focused upon discovering that one individual who makes all of our hearts desires. Soon, what made our heart feel secure surely comes to an end and it sucks. Love is the most powerful emotion a human being can experience. The strangest thing is that no one really knows the definition of what it really means. Like why is it so hard to find love? That is very easy to understand, if you know that the word "LOVE" is not the same as one's feeling of love. Have you ever had really deep feelings for someone? Yet they act like you are nothing to them. Like if you are just just a toy to them, and they are playing games with you and your mind. They keep messing with all of your feelings because some boys are just very cruel & like to play games. I feel like they shouldn't even lead us on in the first place. If they want nothing to do with us. Like why make us suffer through all for the pain? Why? Just so we can be hurting while they're not caring. Also hanging out with your friend acting like they have no care in the world about who they just hurt.

Love is a really BIG word. Yet some people just throw it out there and say it to people who don't even care about what the word actually means or what love entails. Why do boys have to be so cruel? Why do boys make us suffer through all the shit they put us through? Why do boys cheat? Why do boys lie? Like okay? Everyone does it but once you tell them, that should be the final call. After you say those three words, 8 letters, you should be staying loyal, not cheating on your girlfriend or wife that you just told "I love you". Cheating on your significant other or girlfriend is is a really big deal to us girls. You boys might not care but it breaks us on the inside. and makes us not trust anyone after what you all did to us. Once you cheat on someone you can't go back and try to make everything go back to the way your relationship was in the beginning. Because guess what, it never will!!! When you love someone you don't cheat on them, hurt them, or try to break them to where they won't ever heal again!!! Love is a very strong word!!! You just don't say it because you don't mean it, you say it because you do mean it, to your significant other. If you really love someone tell them "I love you". If you don't love them don't lead them on!! It's as simple as that. Do not let your significant other hurt! It's not right to see someone else hurting because of your stupid ass, pathetic, petty mistakes. It means a lot to people so don't hurt them. We can only take in so much once we hear that 4 letter word (love). So don't break someone's heart or lead them on just because you feel like playing games with someone. Us girls and boys do not deserve that!

Love means alot to us human beings. Love means alot to everyone,even animals. Hey, they need love too. Love is such a beautiful thing. But why does it hurt so much to love someone with all of your heart? Why does it break us so easily? Why? Why? Why? We're always gonna think "you were not wrong for leaving me but it was wrong when you decided to come back, only when it was convenient for you." They need to treat you like they have a heart for you. They need to give and give till they pull everything out of you and leave you empty. Real love is something we do. It's not a feeling; it is not primarily something about we feel. Real love is about being loving much more than being loved. But to be genuinely loving requires a lot of personal growth and inner rewiring on our part. It takes effort-real effort. It's not easy. If becoming more loving were easy,then everyone would be doing it. Because real love is effortful, real love is often difficult; real love takes work. Loving others can be extremely difficult at times. The main reason we run into difficulties in loving others is sin, both ours and that of those we try to love. Sometimes we misunderstand what love is. We tend to think of love as primarily an emotional response. Boys tend to the "play" us girls. The problem is that we cannot certainly control our emotions. We constantly find ourselves challenged to love is "extra grace required people."