Briarlight: I have received a message from CinderflightWarrior. She has said:
I needs the help. So, there's this girl at school, Hannah, who I'm kinda-sorta friends with. But she can be a BIG. FAT. JERK. Like just today, my best friend told me that Hannah had snapped at her for no good reason at all, and then I called Hannah an idiot. And then at lunch, I was I doing my own business, and then Hannah comes up to me and says, "I hope you regret it, Rowan." And I'm thinking, "What did I do?" I'm torn between making up with her, or ditching her. My friends have moved in, but I hold grudges, and I don't plan on changing that.
Now, Cinder here has a big problem. There are a few solutions to this problem.
Option number one:
You could make Hannah something nice, like a cake or a bracelet or whatever it is she's into, and apologize to her, then kindly ask her if she could be more polite. This is the sweet forgiving option.
Option Number Two:
Two words: Cold Shoulder. If Hannah ever tries to talk to you, or anything like that, do nothing. Pretend she isn't there. For extra effect, tilt your head when she talks like you're hearing an annoying buzz.
Option Number Three:
Talk. Go up to her and say "Hannah, I love you, and you're a great friend, but sometimes you can be a jerk. You might want to be a little nicer if you don't want to start losing friends."
Option Number Four:
Tell Hannah that if she wants to have you as a friend, she better start being nicer. This may or may not work.
Please let me know how it goes. Thank you Cinderflight!
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Dr. Briarlight
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