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"We're all seeking that special person who is right for us.

But if you've been through enough relationships, you begin to suspect there's no right person, just different flavor a of wrong.

Why is this?

Because you yourself are wrong in some way, and you seek out partners who are wrong in some complementary way.

But it takes a lot of living to grow fully into your own wrongness.

And it isn't until you run up against your deepest demons, your unsolvable problems
-the ones that make you truly who you are-
that we're ready to find a lifelong mate.

Only then do you finally know what you're looking for.

You're looking for the wrong person.

But not just any person: the right wrong person- someone you lovingly gaze upon and think' "This is the problem I have."

I will find that special person who is wrong for me in jail the right ways.

Let our scars fall in love"

-Galway Kinnell