Change is a funny thing we’re never quite sure what we’re becoming or why. Then one day we look at ourselves and wonder who we are and how we got there.
-Taylor Swift
There are times in your life that you don’t have any choice but to let go even though you still want to hold at it. There’s no permanent in life but change. Things change, climate change, and even do people change. No one will gonna be there for you forever. Your family might leave you, your lover might cheat on you, and your friends might betray you. But I think that’s a good sign to know if they are true to you, well everybody lies no exception. Hahaha tell me what wrong with me? I always envy my thoughts. Well let’s forget about that I don’t want to confuse you my dear readers. Our topic if I’m not mistaken is CHANGE. Not of how long do people stay on you I’m so confusing hahaha. Okay let’s begin change happens every single day even though you have a daily routine task you can’t surpass it. As I said it happens EVERY SINGLE DAY…
At first I know that it’s hard to change yourself. It might be shocking to anyone that they don’t recognize you easily because of the changes in you. They might be criticized you for that change. But why do you have to be affected to them? Ask yourselves why- Because their thoughts and insights are painful to you? Well everybody absorbs some criticisms even if they don’t change and let me say this they are not the one who’s going to say of what will you do, they don’t own your life, no one is holding a pen for you to write the story of your life they are just a readers of your life. They are the one who is responsible to throw comments- positive or not, not to write or rewrite your own story. You don’t need to have a co- writer for you to make your life more essential and better living. And let them say the hates on you well I know that you don’t want to hear some hates because they affect you and it brings you down. Well if that so take it positively. If you take the hates positively way it will turn to positive do not believe on math that when you multiply the negative number to a positive number that will result to a negative integer well that’s wrong- in life not in math, do not compare things to another one it’s a different scenario; math is too far away from life although we need math. We need to hear the hates because if we don’t life is boring cause if we don’t receive some hates we can’t learn how to appreciate things, we can’t be stronger, we don’t learn how to fight of what we love to do, and the most important thing that the verdict teaches us is we can be ourselves. But we are afraid that they hate us and because of those negative reactions of people to us we ended up on putting ourselves into box. Try to unfold the box maybe you’re a gift box that once it opened it will give joy to anyone and could maybe so useful and more meaningful. Or maybe you’re on treasure box that has precious things in this world, try to dig it and that I know once you found it you’ll be happier than ever. Happiness is a choice you will never ever find it on a coke, so for me go forth and find your happiness maybe there are some roadblocks to your happiness but what will you do? Are you just going to stand there and do nothing until it mocks you? Or find a way to break that blocks one by one to finally reveal what’s behind that wall?
Change makes you happier. Why do I say so? Because if you are contended of what you have right now you won’t change a single thing about you right? You’re not going to waste a single time just to learn or create new things. Change may also be the result of what happened to you in the past. It could maybe a traumatic experience or on a failed relationship on family, friends, or your lover. I know that that kind of situation is emotionally painful that drags you down from above. You might rebel to your family to the reaction of what they did or on that family conflict that you are involved in because you’re one of them (a family member). You might sometimes throw back and forth some heavy words to your parents or to other family member that you have a problem on. But if you are on that situation I hope that you could resolve it as long as possible because I believe that if there are group of people who have a possible chance of not leaving you it is your family.
I’m not that kind of person that will judge you of you what you become because I know you have a lot of reasons why you change. I respect you for that and as long as I’m not affected by it, as long as I’m not the reason behind that change in the negative way, or as long as you’re not harming other people then do it I’m not forcing you to stop of doing it. If you are really want to do it then go. The reason why I’m saying this is to clarify that for me it is okay to change your image in a negative way to express to others that you’re not okay, to narrate that you’re at some point of life that you want people understand you, and to tell them that you are in pain. I’m saying those reasons why you act like that is because as far as I know the people who became like that experienced that kind of thing cause I think nobody change their image for worse right? But all of that you need to do is to resolve all of that thing so we can live happily cause we all know that it is not good although we say that we don’t hurt other people we must resolve it.
It may also be the revelation of who you really are because you’re just hiding who you are to blend in to all--- your friends, classmates, the modernization and everything around you for not to be an outcast in everywhere. Maybe you finally found who you are because you’re just not pushing your limit to become a new you cause your afraid if you don’t succeed at it. Or maybe that particular change makes you feel more comfortable.
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