"If you're going to fall you might as well fall as hard as you can.
The pain you would be in from the extravagant fall would be heart breaking, at most. But you would know, that this is the worst it gets.
And you continue on from there.
Judging all the heart breaks and people that try to push you off a higher edfe. You simply keep saying, "Oh, no, Hun, I've already falled then hardest possible way." and smile, while falling again."