Hello friends.
I wanted to give you some advice. I assume that if you are reading this then you're probably lesbian, bisexual, gay, transgender, gender fluid, or something along those lines. So I am going to tell you everything you need to know to get through all of the bad stuff at school or in public, or maybe at home, because we all know how tough others can be on people like us.
Here are the things you need to remember:
1. People don't think about you as much as you think they do.
You might think people who give you hate think about you more than they actually do. Most of the time the things that they say to you are halfhearted and they don't even think about what they want to say until they're right in front of you. It's more of an instinct. They may be having a bad day and they decide to use you as a punching bag to get all of their frustration and anger out of their system. To them you are their filter and they're using you to vent to (If that makes any sense at all).
2. Accept how other people think of you is their problem, not yours.
You aren't asking them to hate you. You aren't asking them to be homophobic bitches. It's their problem, so let it bother them, not you.
3. Surround yourself with people who accept you.
This is what I do. Before I was shy about dressing like myself. I grew my hair out and I dressed in more feminine clothes. Then I met Ryan, Kai, Georgie and Alex. They're like me and with them I feel at home. I feel like I can express my true self. Don't be around people who judge you or make you feel isolated. Stick with the people who make you feel happiest.
4. Everyone cares what others think about them.
Especially the people who hurt you. They're so focused on everything being the way they think it should be, which is incredibly wrong. Because they're so focused on everything being perfect and normal, just like they've made themselves. It's the scarecrows and the killjoys, guys. One or the other.
5. Be confident and true to who you are.
Don't ever let those bitches tell you what is right because they're so wrong.
Goodbye friends!
(Oh and don't commit suicide because if you did you know there would still be people who would cry over your dead body and blame themselves and it will get better and suicide is the worst answer to any problem and there is a promise at the end of all of the lies and it does get better even if it gets worse at first so stay here.)
