Well Jess has been thru it all. He was in high school during his last relationship it didn't go so well Jess and his boyfriend at the time his name was Brad. Brad was Jess' sweetheart but he was also abusive emotionally and physically. Jess had bruises from him and Jess also started to cut at the time he doesn't do it anymore... Jess is afraid to get in another relationship with someone because of what Brad did and Jess is also tired of being single... This is what Brad did, he told Jess one day I love you so much baby, and the next he totally ignored Jess. And he still ignores Jess to this day...