The Dominant and the Housekeeper (BDSM)

0: Basic Info

This is a BDSM story.

This is a BDSM story.

This is a friggin BDSM story.

It should be rated NC-17 (no one under 17 admitted to read), but I can't help what you decide to do, or not. Just please don't go blaming me for corrupting yourself, because I feel like this is a rather bold and clear message.

This is a read at your own risk story, and you'll probably end up craving it or being disgusted by the acts of submission, etc.

click out of the browser if you are one of those people.

© 2013 Ally Narvette All Rights Reserved

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-:- Basics of BDSM -:- (there will be a test at the end... JK ;])

B&D Bondage and Discipline

D&s Dominant and submissive

S&M Sadism and Masochism

BDSM is generally very kinky sex. Some people find it disturbing, while to others, it is a complete act of devotion of their body, mind, and soul to one they trust and find great pleasure in. It is erotic behavior between two consenting adults.

The two "players" are generally the Dominant (Dom) and submissive (sub). There can be more than two, but typically, it is only those two. The Dom has many names (ie: Sir, Master, Daddy, etc.) depending on the circumstance, but he/she is the one who, as the name implies, dominates and controls the other participant. The sub (pet, little girl, slave, etc.) is the one who surrenders to being dominated.

It is a power exchange in which the sub submits his or her physical and/or mental control to his or her Dominant completely.

This power exchange can be for only a certain period of time, or even 24/7. This period of dominance and submission is known as a session or play time. (Similarly, the area of play is called the playroom).

And as to safety, pre-play negotiations normally take place, in which the Dom and sub discuss what is to be expected, safe words, their hard and soft limits, ensure consent, review and sign a contract, and other preparatory details.

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-:- Terms -:- (some have already been discussed)

Dominant/Dom-the one who controls and dominates the other participant

Submissive/Sub-the participant being controlled and dominated

Session/Play time-the period of time in which BDSM actions take place

Play room-the designated room that most Dom's have where a session normally occurs

Safe word- the words decided pre-play that determines the sub's comfortableness with the activity

Crops, whips, floggers, etc- BDSM toys that can be used to inflict controlled amounts of pain or heighten pleasure

Sadomasochism- the aspect of BDSM that refer to the exchange of emotional/physical pain

Switch- the Dom and sub switch jobs, essentially shifting the power to the other for a period of time

If I mention something you don't understand, feel free to comment within the chapter, asking for a clarification :]

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-:- Misconceptions about BDSM -:-

1. BDSM is not only about the Dominant having his sadistic way with his/her sub. Both the Dom and sub are consenting, and it heightens the pleasure of both participants.

2. BDSM is not about pain infliction. Although pain-play can be an aspect of BDSM, it has a sexual context, and should not be used to intentionally and permanently injure one.

3. BDSM is not a negative result of childhood abuse. Despite what E. L. James may have brainwashed you in Fifty Shades of Grey with, not all BDSM stems from abuse. Some people are not simply content with regular, vanilla sex, and they seek something kinkier to fit their needs.

4. BDSM is not to avoid intimacy with someone. You'll soon realize that BDSM can be extremely intimate and emotional, and it can be between two adults in love.

idk what else to say. Don't judge a book by its cover... but I'm not saying you all should go out and seek a Dom. Don't do that XD

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And so that's that.

I know that's a lot to take in, especially if you are completely new to this-which I congratulate you for keeping an open mind!-but I hope I've clarified some things before it begins!

Enjoy the sexy, kink-filled story I have planned for y'all, and I hope you enjoy reading about the characters emotionally and sexually developing love story.

You must follow to read to it's entirety, though. sorry.

luff,

Ally x

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