Life Can Be Good

Chapter 2 Dilemma Day

How many bad days have you experienced?

900

You have been irritated, crazy angry, super furious and hurt. Have you ever felt like killing or hurting someone?

When you are angry or hurt. You get defensive, aggressive, sarcastic, rude or you exaggerate . You treat other people like crap. Anger makes you emotional and makes you blow up like a hot air balloon

If you are angry. I think its a good
idea that you keep your opinions to yourself because your words will
hurt people. Don't do that. You don't want to be that person

Imagine if you were condescending, rude and obnoxious and still get liked by people.........

For example; Imagine yourself having a horrendous day. You shout at people. You are capricious, short tempered and you attack everyone. (imagine that) Imagine if you did that to people and they immediately understood that you are having a bad day and still liked you.

I don't think so. If you are a monster
to people. No one will like you.
If you are arrogant to me
then i won't like you
Give me disrespect for disrespect.
Give me attitude for attitude

You have been angry and exasperated. You know the things you do when you are pissed off.

I exaggerate. If you do something
I don't like. I make up little scenarios
in my head. For example I think :
"Oh she is undermining me"
"so she thinks I can't fight for myself"
"He thinks I'm stupid"
and then I attack for reasons that
don't exist. What do you do?

QUIZ!

1.You are in a long que in a store. You lose balance and step on the person behind you's foot (Martina). Martina gets angry and causes a scene. What do you do?
a) Glare and ignore Martina
b) Haul Matina out of the que with his/her hair, slap. Beatdown.
c) Politely apologize
d) Explain that it was an accident
e) Retaliate, argue
f) Look forward and continue with what you were doing.

In a situation like this, you have two decisions. Its either you;

i. Retaliate and take no BS from anyone. Having a bad day is
no excuse to be rude. We
all have bad days.
or
ii. Understand that someone is
going through a lot. We all
have those days. We know
how they are.

Which one do you choose?

I can't decide what to choose
It's so hard.

2.If you were Martina and had a dilemma day. Someone stepped on your foot. What would you want that person to do? Apologize right?

Maybe

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Thank you for reading. I hope this made you realise something.