What is #FreeTheKinks?

The 'Inner Circle'

Let us start off by saying that the following passage is completely, and entirely opinionated. Our goal on this account is to find and teach ways that we believe will better support you throughout your kinkster life.

Should you choose to use them is entirely up to you (as long as you're being safe, that's a gimmie!) but we encourage you for the benefit of the entire community.

What we wanted to talk about today was what some could refer to as their Inner Circle.

Okay, so let's put it in simple terms:

Your kink is part of you. It's your business, your body, and your life. Therefore, it's not something you should necessarily be advertising to EVERYBODY.

For Example: I (it's Maya typing) am bisexual. And where this isn't exactly the same now, at one point it was.

When I first came out, I only told the couple people who I felt were close enough to me and that I trusted to accept it no matter what. In other words, I told my inner circle. And that is what we're trying to get across with these kinks.

Who you tell or even how much of your sex life you share with friends and family is up to you and your partner. And sure, most of us can sit here and say 'I don't care what anyone thinks about it, because it's my life.' Well I'm glad you're so confident, but we all know when people get talking and rumors get spread, even within a family setting, things change.

You need to think about you and your partner when it comes to how much you share.

Adding on to sharing, a kink should never be displayed to the public. UNLESS, OF COURSE, public is part of the kink, but in that case it needs to be in a safe but more importantly sane setting.

As someone who is part of the DD/LG community, I can tell you seeing it in public was quite disturbing. There were other children, actual children, around.

Ultimately, this all leads back to the previous passage about SSC sex. Remember that you do not just need to think about how your sex life effects you, but how it may effect others with how much you share.

The right decisions make a happy happy happy kink life!

So kink on, my friends!

Becca & Maya ❤️