They say that it is so sweet and shows how much a guy cares if he changes his ways for you. But I do not see it that way people are the way they want to be, and who am I to tell them they are wrong? Yes they say player ways are wrong, but do they know why a player plays? Maybe it is because they are scared to get hurt? I can't tell you the answer, but I can tell you that just because you think something is wrong doesn't mean that it is. I don't want to change someone because they are perfect the way they are. If they would like to change for themselves I will not stand in their way, but I refuse to force change.