You must know the reason why she is silent. You must trace her weakest spots. You must write to her. You must remind her that you are there. You must know how long it takes for her to give up. You must be there to hold her when she is about to give up.
You must love her because many have tried and failed.
And she needs to know that she is worthy to be loved, that she is worthy to be kept.And this is how you keep her