Before you start reading this feel greatfull for everyone & everything that has happened in the past because they make you who you are today. Also be greatfull for the abundance that you will receive in future with your positive attitude.
THANKYOU !
Everyday i jump from conclusions between, " Forget & forgive, let go of what you cannot control, if it is meant to be it will be " and " Try hard till you succeed, never give up, give controlled positive thoughts because thoughts become things " etc. Out of all this all I understand is, yes life may at times be unfair, but it is for you to realise your mistakes and know your potential to make your life as per your own choice, or else you would just end up sitting lazily on your couch doing nothing untill the day everyone & everything gets exploited or extinct.
You cannot control everyone & everything, then why not focus on your good deeds & thoughts which are totally under your control.
There is no compulsion in life. You always have a choice. A choice to decide. A choice about what you want, be it your friends, career, profession etc. A choice to let go. A choice to stop things let affect you. A choice to take charge of the situation for good. It's only your own decision, because what you allow will continue.
Stop over thinking right now. Nothing in life is permanent, not even your own shadow. Your happiness & even sorrows are just a phase. But just like the shadow comes back to you every night, it is up to you, how much efforts you want to put in to make your life stable. Just like the days & nights, happiness & sorrows are just a cycle which follow one another & you need to accept that.
Remember YOU are your own responsibility. Your future, life, career etc is your own responsibility. Only you can live your life, no one else can do that for you. You cannot run away from yourself for lifetime. Take responsibility for your actions in any area of your life & strive for the best outcome. When you take responsibility you have no regrets.
People like nice people. Your family, friends like nice people. You like nice people. Thus be nice be loved.
If you dont take care for yourself & your happiness, you will end up being dependent on others for your happiness and health. Don't miss an opportunity to spread happiness & smile, because being the reason for someone else's smile is the best feeling ever. But, this can happen only if you feel happy within and about yourself.
Maintaining a balance between your personal & professional life is not going to be easy. You will have to make equal sacrifices for both to have a fuller & happier life.
Build yourself ! Brand yourself ! With every single interaction people are assessing you. Your every move leaves an impression on others. Be good, do good, leave a good impression & be an inspiration to someone.
Avoid anger. Make love your habit. With every harsh word you say, you delay your success & degrade your relationships.
You know, your real life starts with your 20s. Your professional life amonts to 35+ years of your total living. So be calm, don't make decisions in haste until it is backed up with all your head & heart
Humans are bound to make mistakes. And its OKAY ! It is just a part of learning. But dont fall into the traps of this vicious cycle :
Make mistake => Realise => Careless attitude => Repeat => Stress => Guilt, failure, unhappy life => More stress => More mistakes.
Instead why not let the mistakes be start to success :
Make mistake => Realise => Take charge => Learn => Rectify => Be carefull => Successful, happy stress free life.
1st you need to be clear in your head, You have a life to LIVE. Studies, career, work are just a part of evolving. You cannot live your life at work. So take break, eat, sleep, travel, stay happy. Have access to yourself. Give yourself the space you need.
One important process for success in personal & professional life is :
Understand => Remember => Express => Take feedback => Improve. A healthy communication & expression of feelings is the key to happy life.
Understand and evaluate each individual & situation. While dealing with people keep in mind that humans are not creatures of logic but creatures of emotions. Express your views and opinions clearly for others to understand you or else, it will be out who will eventually suffocate and lead a fake life. A healthy 2 way communication will act as a catalyst for every situation. Always seek for feedback and make improvement a constant habit.
At times I wonder if it is so difficult to improve relations & love again, the people & things which was once everything that you wanted with some efforts or is it so easy to let go off everything which was once yours. Would you throw away your precious gold neckless just because it lost its polish or diamonds or would u get it repaired again ? Aren't your relations with people worth your efforts to reassemble them back to its original position ? Is money everything that you will take to your grave ? Or would you want peace of mind & images of happy faces that you leave behind ? You must have heard that you cannot expect a loin to not eat you just because you are a vegetarian. In the same way do not expect others to be good to you just because you are a good person.
Do not take anything in life too seriously or personally. Not even my article. Live a carefree life, not a careless one. All you need to do is understand, apply & forget. Think positive, feel love & happiness, attract more love & happiness, keep believing, have faith, be patient, kind & loving....!!!
STAY BLESSED !! AMEN !!
