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Well first of all congrats to this quote been selected as the quote of the day !😌 Well I swear this will be a long one so bear with it guys !!

"WHY DO THEY DONT UNDERSTAND US ?" What is causing all these miss understood happens?Well let me tell you a story .

One stressful night she still have a lot of homework to do because she just got her post as the president of a few society, so she have a lot of work to do like planning upcoming events all night . So she rush and rush and rush to get her work done by tomorrow .As she look at the clock it's already 10 night ,she don't have much time left because she need some rest as she tomorrow has an event to be hosted.

Then dad came back from his work, he seems to be very happy ,with a smile on his face .It seems that the meeting earlier is very successful . Then she call her to make him dinner. As she's upstairs in her room doing her work so she shouted: " Yes ! Alright !!!!" ,then she open the door I ran downstairs straight to the kitchen to get her dad's meal done course all she thought is finishing her work and get some good night sleep .So finally she got her dad's dinner done and ready to serve , but as she look at him he looks very angry. Then he ask her:"What happened to you?why did you look so frustrated and why do you bang the door and stomped the floor so loudly as you walk !?" She replies:" no I didn't !! No!! " she felt very very innocent at the moment and as she thinks back ,yes she indeed close the door loudly and she ran downstairs making a lot of noise but still in her mind she just want to get things done . But then her dad shouted at her :"Don't ever show this kind of attitude in front of me !I always being polite to ask for help !please don't take all this for granted!!She feel so sad and so speechless. Before returning to her room ,she told her dad :"I repeat myself because I don't want to cause any missed understood and just willing to tell you that I'm not frustrated when I will was helping you..." ,then she just walk back to her room.

After all this . she doesn't feel like doing her work anymore . She finds a conner in her room and sits down there. She stares at the clock, not knowing what to do. She wonders why her dad doesn't understand her actions, she doesn't even mean that way but he thought she was frustrated and why doesn't he couldn't understand her more better like how she can understand her dad...

At the same day afternoon actually something happen ...

That afternoon , before that meeting, dad was very nervous and stressed out about it, he also seems to picking up phone calls every moment and been really busy preparing for the meeting later. At the same time, she was very very excited because she just got the post of President of a few societies as what her dad wish for and she also work hard and put in a lot of effort in it to make happen! She was so happy and excited to tell her dad about this after school. So as she got home, she ran into her dad working desk wanted to tell him so badly. She saw her day having a bad time , hope to use this opportunity to brighten up his mood and make him proud!So she started with :" Hey dad! I just got the post of President of a few clubs soiety as you wish !! " Dad look at her a while and gave her a bitter smile and turn himself back to work. She was a bit disappointed as she expect her dad to be very excited but she understands that her dad is having a hard time and having a stressful time preparing for the meeting. So she tried again by asking him:" Are you happy dad ? I did it is also because of you told me that understands people will be a great leader......"She stunned. Dad literary ignore her and got up from his chair and walk past her to pick up a phone call. He didn't even look at her ....She feel very disappointed,sad and unhappy because dad didn't even pay attention to her but just about his work. But she just told herself that dad is just busy and he will eventually congrats her later.

But at night this happened.....
From the story , her dad should be more concerned about her daughter, and remembering what he had spoken before . And as a parent he should be able to understand her daughter may have a hard time if she have such action of showing frustration just like him. And be able to understand her daughter did all these and have this kinda of pressure is all for the sack of him to make him proud. He should appreciate her daughter by giving her attention. And her daughter did well by understanding he dad needs and did give respect and trust to him . Both of them jut need more COMMUNICATIONS!!

So as you guys can see, as a parent,you should always understands our children's talks and actions. We children know parents are very busy with your work and you guys have work a lot for the children. But at the same time , most importantly you need to understand your own child first to prevent understood. It's really a hard time for the children to got misunderstood by parents and no be able to explain to them. So as a parent we should be aware of our child action and be able to understand why your children show such attitude or such action to you when something happens .Think about it .did you yourself did something wrong at first ?And educate them in the right way starting by communicate with them . Parents will sure think that now days we children in school will only have one problem,which is studying.But actually you are wrong ,we more other problems that you think. So as a parent you should understand and learn more about school environment now days and the different education system and level now day.We sure will also have a our hard times too . Not as much as yours but we have too. At times we also need to face problems ourselves so parents should always and be prepared communicate properly with your children to understand them more, more about the problems they are facing all the time.

I'm in the other hand we as a son , a daughter should understand that our parents work so hard to raise us from a baby to young teens. They use up so much time,effort, and their youth to make us better person!We should all be grateful of what they have did for us and be able to understand them when they feel upset and we should always be there to help them, to care about them when they are having a hard time. We as children whenever parents having a bad day after work, we shouldn't just ignore them and let them be. We should always understands parents problems and give them support and always talk to them in order to make them understand more. Not by just texting them and putting a smiley face, theses are not real communication and interaction, they won't understand and truly understand our expression, our thoughts and our actions and this all these will cause misunderstood. And we don't want it to happen right?

So guys I know this is a very long message and the arrangement it's been quite messy. I'm sorry this may be a moody one but hope you guys truly understand what message I want to tell to all of you guys and I hope you guys happy communicating with your parents!!❤️❤️and have a great time with them and I want to tell to all parents that every child love their parents very much so peace out!!😊❤️

Your friend,
Jet Frost.❄️

Today's mood is telling people to STOP assuming and start communicating. 😍 and love your parents!!!🙆🏻🙆🏻
Quote of the day: Obviously approved 😊

Are you talking with your parents now ? They need you 😌😊

PS: Please do tell me in the comments below what do you think about this ! See you guys again next time!!❄️