Dear future husband,
I understand that children need to be punished for doing things wrong. But don't you ever leave a mark on or children. Don't you dare threaten them, or slam th against the wall. I have experienced it enough, and I don't want my kids to have to go through it. If you ever do any of this to our kids I will take them away and leave you and you will never see them again.
Your protective future wife,
Emily