Aapi's Words Of WISDOM.

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In the name of Allah the Most Gracious and the Most Merciful.

Peace and Blessings of Almighty Allah(ﷻ), be upon our beloved Prophet Muhammad (ﷺ), his blessed descendants and his noble companions.

السلام عليكم ورحمةالله وبركاته○

Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmathullahi Wa Barakathuhu!

My Dear Sweethearts,

I pray for good health and strong Iman for everyone of you. So what I wanted to say is,

"Pregnancy" is the topic today!

Should I tell or not? Are you okay with it?

Are you afraid or you wouldn't want to know?

Its not I'm explaining what it is!
I am just going to tell my experience that why I faced some problems, so you all wouldn't face it like I did...

And I am not going into any thing that will be uncomfortable for any of my sweethearts.

I hope that you gain benefit from what I share with you. In Shaa Allah.

In a girl's life there comes many moments where she feels alone, and rejected.

And these feelings leave us very helpless.

Sometimes even when parents scold about something, we take it to our heart so deeply.

What most girls do and which I did was they stop taking care of themselves.

They stop eating properly,

Doesn't pamper their skin,

And always think about their sad feelings,

And that is so harmful for us internally, we can't even guess how much it affects us.

Everyone faces a difficult phase in their own way,

And at the age of yours, a girl needs the most care.

Due to something low in my life I did the same!

I stopped eating!

Milk was a far away thing for me.

Taking care of my skin, not at all!

Then the lady (whom I found as an inspiration) advised me of many things including these;

But the damage was done as for those months I completely ignored myself.

So then when I was pregnant for the first time,

She advised me many things;

A baby needs full nourishment and that is gained much from her past routine of eating.

I didn't took care of myself nor I was much healthy internally, those months made me week from inside very much.

Because those years as I said they are the most important

I was pregnant and my husband and everyone, no doubt they took care of me very much all of them.

But I refused to drink milk sometimes and many healthy things which are important..But I tried very much!

Then my lady of inspiration taught me;

That no matter how much you do things in the end, a husband wants a healthy wife who could meet his demands in everything