Say goodbye to your boyfriend if he is more concerned about his sexual satisfaction than yours. This shows that he is selfish and only wants to please himself. Sex should be satisfying for both parties. You should not feel obliged to stay with him because you love him. Sexual frustration can lead to resentment over time. If you find it hard to tell him how to please you, he is not the man for you. Loving couples are open with each other about all aspects of their lives including sex. You should be able to discuss your concerns about your sex life and he should be willing to listen and accommodate you.