I'm on my way home from work, sitting on the janky bus seats and listening to a particularly favorite rock band. I look like a typical college student, nearing 20. I have short, mousy brown hair and glasses. Looking a bit more closely, a stranger would see a nose ring and big brown-green eyes. A fairly plain but feminine woman. Maybe it looks like I'm texting a friend, or even a boyfriend.
I might not "seem like it", but I'm a lesbian. I'm waiting, if rather impatiently, for the girl of my dreams.