Dear Future Boyfriend,
I wonder if I already know you or have yet to meet you. Either way, I know I think about you all the time. I know you are out there, because I can feel your presence when I close my eyes.
I know you’ve already come across different ladies, but just like me you’re still searching. It wouldn’t be too hard to please me. I am not looking for Mr. Perfect but Mr. Right. I’m sure you are a good man and you value your family, especially your mother.
I like how you carry yourself, the confidence that you have that only shows that you can really handle me. I love everything about you being nice and you being stubborn. I love how you are so unpredictable that it draws me closer to you. I know you are always there to support me in everything that I do especially when it comes to my career and future. I know you are also a man with great dreams and hopefully we can share our dreams with each other and we can make it happen together.
I like how we plan our future together because this only shows that this relationship is for keeps. I want you to crack the hard shell covering my frail heart. I hope you can always makes me laugh as if there is no tomorrow, especially when I’m down. You don't need to be somebody else just to impress me. I would like it more if you'll simply be yourself. I want you to see the real me.
I love to go around places. I hope you as well love to travel, so that we can build memories together as we go through life. Don’t worry I am understanding. I love to watch basketball games but if you’re not in to it that’s ok. I’ll support you with whatever sports you play. I will still watch your game and be your number one cheerleader.
I want you to respect my folks at all times as much as you respect me. I want our relationship go beyond us two so we may grow in love with those people around us and dear to us too. I’m not asking you to shout to the whole world that you love me but rather to show it with your simple and humble ways.
Whenever I talk I hope you listen for it’s my life I’m now sharing and whenever I’m in silence I hope you listen to me more and try your best to draw that smile on my face as if everything is OKAY. Like a kid who never loses hope. All I ask is for you to be mature enough, but still knows how to be a kid.
I want you not only to be my boyfriend but also my best friend. One I can comfortably run to with all my burdens and to laugh with all my mischievousness. One that is willing to watch those cheesy movies with me. I want us to be there for each other side by side.
I want to be silly with you and technically just hang out. I want to share our life with each other not you and me being just each other’s life. I want our family, friends and of course GOD to be part of our relationship. This relationship will only work if we have not only love but also faith and acceptance of all the good and bad about each other.
You know your dreams very well and how to achieve it and inspiring me each day to reach mine. Being responsible is a virtue I would and always would find in you, for no girl in reality would ever want a guy who only knows how to love his girlfriend but of his self as well.
I'm insecure. I'm a little weird. I am annoying. Sometimes, I'll cry over stupid things. I'll get angry. I'll get sad. I'm stubborn. There are thousands of things that I don't like about myself, but I want you to love them. All I really want is someone who can make me smile.
I want you to love my looks even though I look like a mess. I want you to listen to my stories even if you feel like sleeping. I'd appreciate it if you'll laugh at my corny jokes and be able to listen on my poor singing skills. I want you to hold my hand and hug when I need it. Pick up the phone in the middle of the night when I need to cry and tell me everything will be fine. Sing my favorite song whenever I'm having trouble going to sleep. I want to be kiss by you on my forehead after a long argument over stupid things.
I'm not the material type of girl. So you don't have to give those and that though I'd appreciate if you'll give me even just a piece of flower sometimes. You don't have to call me everyday or even talk to me 24/7. I'd appreciate you call me before you go to bed or text me before you fall asleep, because I do want to know how you're day went and what's on your mind. I'd appreciate you telling me that you're busy for I'll be insecure and assume that you're cheating on me or something else if you’re not.
We can talk about our day and if ever you had a bad day just call me and I’ll be ready to listen and talk about what happened. You might not receive an SMS or call from me every minute or every hour but sure thing before and after you go to bed you will receive sweet messages from me.
I want to be comfortable with you. I want to hang-out with you, I want to talk, to laugh, act and be me without fear that you might get disappointed. I want us to continue to grow as a person, to discover new things about each other. I do like simple cheesy stuffs, like when I'm cold, give me your jacket or even surprise me. I love surprises. I would love it when you'll try to calm me down when time comes that I'm being too childish or what. I'd appreciate it if you'll remember every details of me even if I don't remind you.
What I mention was just an example. It's up to you on how you'll do the other part. I don't want you to give me everything I want. I want you to fight me whenever I'm being too much to handle. Pull me whenever I feel like leaving in the middle of an argument. Let's not sleep until everything is fine between the two of us.
God directed our love story. That's why I want God to be the center of our relationship. I want to go to church with you every Sunday. It would be very nice also if you'll going to talk to my family and tell them how much you love me.
When it comes to my friends, I know you'll like them too. But don't get jealous on them whenever I spent lots of times with them. You know you'll always be my only love. I hope it would be the same in case of your friends. We can have separate hang-outs with our friends as long as we do good and we don't cancel any plans together.
And above all I want you to fear God more than me leaving your life and everything that the world offers. After all He is the one in the first place who’ll let our separate paths meet.
Despite all the criteria that I gave you, I just want you to stay the same. Stay as who you are. Because you are already amazing and I don’t want to change a single thing about you. Relax. Chill! I already love you.
I hope we find each other anytime soon. Continue to grow in love while fulfilling your dreams as I’m planning to do too. For now I’ll be waiting for you until that very special day comes for us to meet. I am working on being the right woman and be the best girlfriend ever. Because I know you'll be the best boyfriend for me.
I know that when that time comes, when we certainly found each other, we can feel the magic, the magic of TRUE LOVE in which God had written. Prove to me that you’re worth the wait.
SINCERELY,
Your Future Girlfriend ;)
