There is a big flaw in our society, it's the reason why we are so careful about our image; judgement.
I know. It's common, very known.
People are so inclined with judging others sometimes it's too much.
But before that, I should tell you that there is a huge difference between opinion and judgement.
An opinion is a statement that expresses one thought in a respectable manner.
A judgement is a statement that expresses in an agressive use of words.
Although it's almost the same — judgements can also be viewed as a fact, but it's how we express it.
There are many ways in expressing our thoughts with people. We could use words such as, I think, or, maybe, and etc.
For example, an author struggle swith getting readers — some dive quickly into, "It's the crappy writing."
No. Stop it.
That author will quickly give up. But if you'd told, "Maybe, improve your writing a bit, I think that'll help."
That person will make a difference. We wouldn't know but that person could make a HUGE difference.
You should be careful with what you say. You might hurt someone who's going through a lot. Even if it's a favors you, because it was done to you.
What if the person, decided to go. Decided to kill their selves, because they're tired. So tired they decided to leave this world.
You didn't get the chance to know them.
You won't know their flaws, that someone will soon to love. How fun they could be around, or how caring would they be when you have a problem, you can never know how great they can be.
Don't judge people.
You don't know what they've been through, and hell, if you've been through much more, don't even think it would make you feel better — It wouldn't. Here's an idea: help each other, overcome problems together.
What you've been through is just a lesson you'v overcome. Which makes you stronger for the future. And I'm really proud of you.
