UNDERSTANDING

Every part in our brain performs a specific task such as problem solving and planning, word production, vision, behavioral control emotion , memory emotion and understanding . And no this isn't a scientific topic I'm going to discuss so don't freak out.  

God has gifted every single human being with all these parts of the brain but some people just don't use all of them or one of them . Sometimes people take the whole meaning wrong of our conversation eventually leading to more problems . I think some people don't lack an odd screw the whole toolbox is gone! 

Then come the people who don't  want to understand you or the situation. However when they're going through a state of depression, hardships ,they expect from us to understand them, help them, give them a worthy advice and we do so. Even if we  haven't gone through the same situation we still try to understand them , put ourselves in their shoes just to make ourselves understand and feel what they're going through. When it comes to us they don't do any of it. They make lame excuses , mock us . 

Either they're selfish, ignorant, or like i said earlier their whole toolbox is gone. Whatever's the reason I suggest to all such people out there is to please try and understand. Apply their situation in your own "fairy tale world". Now everyone's got a fairy tale world don't deny it, apply the situation there and think of the outcomes in that way you'll get it maybe not all of it but at least you"ll have an idea about it and you"ll help the person out .

Treat the people the way you want to be treated. Love,share, enjoy, understand each other .Life is too short to hold grudges against each other. A lot of problems can be solved if we talk to each other instead of about each other. Now  I'm not saying that there is no one who understands you there are people who do and if you've got such people or even a single person who does get whatever you say, feel I say don't let them go no matter what. Be loyal to them they're worth your love, support and everything. 

In the end i just want to share a quote I read on google images. 

"Sometimes being understanding is more important than being right.....

 Sometimes we need not a brilliant mind that speaks but a patient heart that listens....

 Not keen eyes that always see faults but open arms that accept.....

 Not a finger that points out mistakes but gentle hands that lead!"

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PLEASE DO NOT COPY THIS WORK .

Don't take this personally, I haven't written this to point out anyone in particular its just my opinion that I wanted to share . We're all in this together you're not alone.