7 Steps Para MakaMove-On Sa Kanya (Exclusive Para sa Tanga)

4 - Don't try too hard

           Tanggapin mo sarili mo. If it happens na hindi ka na napahalagahan dahil iba ka or hindi mo sya kayang sabayan, don't blame yourself. 'Di ka nagkulang. Ang dami mong ginawa na tanging ikaw lang ang may kakayahang gumawa para sa kanya. Like, you're an effing gold but he's after for shiny things that cost nothing so it's not your fault. Hanky's just too blind to not see you there. Like, you've done enough. Believe me. Kung may tanga man sa inyo dalawa, I'm not here to put it on someone but it's probably Hanky, for not appreaciating your priceless value. Not everyone is lucky enough to have someone like you. So don't try too hard for it. You'll earn it. Just keep being kind and understanding. The world needs more of you. You're special. It doesn't end here because you have a long way to go. Like marami ka pang kayang gawin, marami ka pang kayang pasayahin sa ginagawa mo, maraming taong ayaw kang pakawalan kase nga mahalaga ka. 'Yung mga dati mong natalikuran, nako alalahanin mo efforts nila. They tried hard on you but you became like Hanky, you took them for granted kase akala mo hindrance sila while in reality, they're not. Kasi akala mo, they'll be there forever. Feelings fade bes. Lalo na kapag tinitake for granted. Kahit gaano pa katanga, basta narealize nya na napaglaruan sya or nagamit dagdagan mo pa ng nakahanap sya ng taong napahalagahan sya. Nako, di na magdadalawang isip 'yon na iwan ka. Yes, you are amazing but the way you treat people matters the most. If you cant' provide them the things that they deserve, then they don't deserve you. Hindi tayo parating tama bes, hindi rin tayo parating mali. We're just weighing up things and justifying what is right from wrong. Well anyways bes, let's move on! They're probably happy right now. Move on lang, it's not over. We can make things better for the both of us. Maniwala ka lang.

          Just don't feel guilty at all especially when there's nothing to be guilty about. You're an awesome friend or partner. You've done your part so well that Hanky took that for granted and thought that you'll be in that state forever. "LAMPOREBER!" ang tanga natututo din sa huli. Napapagod din at nagiging masaya din. Magiging masaya tayo bes! Tiwala tayo kay God na kaya nating lampasan ito. 

         Personally, I pray myself to sleep every night. But it's okay if you don't. Gusto ko lang mashare. I ask for His forgiveness. I thank Him. I ask Him about things I don't understand sometimes. Honestly, I doubt God sometimes, I think of giving up on myself. But what's the price right? Sadness pa rin? Haaayyy.. 'Wag nalang. I'll be useful myself. So kapag nalulungkot ako, o kaya naman nahihirapan sa proseso, I'd always ask God for it. He might not respond verbally but believe me, he's doing something about it na marerealize mo lang when things go well. This might be a hard thing for you but he's only doing this to teach you. Imagine mo, kapag nalampasan natin 'to you'll be wiser in handling this. Parang adult. One more freebie, 'di tayo nagpakabitter. God has plans for everyone but making a strong contact with him makes it easier. Who knows right? Kaya mo 'to! Kaya natin 'to!